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Hi all my name is Aya. I have struggled all my life with weight but gained the most weight in the last 5 years ( apx 50 lbs). I guess I am hoping that somehow it will someday melt away, but as I just turned 30 I realize its not going to go anywhere if I don't help myself first. I am tired of being fat . I want my husband to feel proud when we walk together not embarressed of how big I am.

Official Start date 09/01/08- aiming at a healthy 1-2 lbs a week
09/04/08 - 247.5
09/08/08- 245.5
09/17/08-243.5
12/15/08: 254 :(
My husband is not happy! He says he is on the verge of leaving :(

*********************** NEW LIFE***********************************
12/20/09
Ok, so it's been a whole year and some!!! This last summer my husband admitted to me that he was "disgusted" with whom I had become. It hurt deeply, after a long review of my marriage, my weight and my health I decided I could no longer do "this" on my own.
In September of this year 2009, I had gastric bypass surgery.
It has been a very long and difficult road since I suffered many complications after surgery including renal failure. I had a feeding tube inserted for a a couple months and recently had it removed a couple weeks ago.
Inchallah I will be able to continue my progress and keep up my health.
My marriage almost did not survive my weight gain although now that I have started to loose weight my husband has changed alot towards me. Only God knows what tomorrow has for me.
I pray that all of you are blessed.
Much much love
Aya


Member Since: 8/25/2008

Fitness Minutes: 70

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LIVE A HAPPY AND HEALTHY LIFESTYLE


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I am a 31 year old Puerto Rican woman born and raised in Delaware. I am a revert to Islam.
I recently underwent gastric bypass surgery on 9/2/09
Have a long way to go but hopefully this is my start.


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  • v SWEETMAHA
    Salam alikum Aya and ramadan kareem,was just reading your page and going over your blogs , Aya a husband who doesn't love you for who you are doesn't deserve to be a husband and I know where you come from as i come from there too, be strong and love who you are because you are beautiful no matter what others think, if your weight almost destroyed your marriage I am sorry but it is a weak marriage , he should be supportaive and try to figure out with you the real reasons behind your weight not judging you ..
    surgery is not the solution ,I know people who had it and went back to where they were , changes should come form your inside ,you worth it ..
    good luck and i hope you are feeling better. emoticon
    3479 days ago
  • v SHANNONSPRING
    Asalaamu alaikum dear sister! May Allah grant us the strength and willpower to achieve all of our goals...ameen emoticon
    3660 days ago
  • v 4MEBFIT2015
    Salaam Aya,

    Thank you for the visit and kind thoughts...Inshallah it will be a better year coming. Wishing you and yours a healthy, prosperous new year!
    3702 days ago
  • v KAFI8099
    Thank you for the Add i fell not only off the wagon but off and under it. I wish you much success in your weight lost
    3707 days ago
  • v MASUMAH1
    Assalamu Alaikom,

    I understand about falling off the wagon! And i am sooo completely with you about your husbands state of mind. I found myself in the same situation this weekend. AGAIN! I don't know why i keep falling off and even though i try and get back on the goal gets farther away. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone in your struggle InshAllah we will over come these spills. Take care
    3754 days ago
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