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My sis (BRENNARENEE12) and i (im in pink)

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I WILL BE ABLE TO SHOP IN NORMAL STORES ...I WILL LOOK AWESOME IN MY COWBOY BOOTS, JEANS, AND A TANK TOP...I will look AWESOME in ANYTHING!!! I will be able to wear the cute little bras with matching panties!!!
I will be strong, I will be healthy, I will be athletic, I will run, I will walk, I will lift, I will stretch, I will become more flexible!!!


i've been heavy for as long as i can remember...and i refuse to be that person anymore!!! I go through swings (like everyone), where its really hard to stay motivated...i tend to give up on myself and stop caring, i eat what i want and as a result gain back the weight i have not very intrinsically motivated, i know what i need to do but sometimes i just don't give a SHIP...i have a horrible sugar addiction and every time i try to quit it makes me sick...sadly its like a drug....i have health issues that stand in my way....and yet here i am AGAIN...getting back on the horse, and ready to ride this thing i have fought my whole life...BEING FAT

I will be strong, I will be healthy, I will be athletic, I will run, I will walk, I will lift, I will stretch, I will become more flexible!!!

right now I am focusing on nutrition, and will add in exercise when my body lets me. I was exercising every day but my body has decided that its not OK with that. I struggle with a number of health issues and they are currently interfering with my ability to exercise.

I have cut out all sugar. I do about a tsp of honey in my coffee in the morning. and that's it. no soda, no candy, no ice cream ect. And i eat clean, Tosca Reno style. I do all the cooking in the house and so everyone eats what i make.....makes it easy to eat healthy!!!

Member Since: 5/2/2010

Fitness Minutes: 1,785

My Goals:
My first goal is 5 Lbs. (met 10-20-11)

My Second Goal Is 12 Lbs.

My Third goal will be another 12 lbs. This second 12 lbs represents a 10% weight loss for me!!! (236 lbs) ~ Met while pregnant (hehehe)

From here its 5 lbs at a time
206 (pre and post pregnancy weight for me)~
200 (yes i added a lb)~

ONEderland! ! ! !

155 (back at high school weight)~

Other Goals:

~To be in good enough shape to go rock climbing!!! I want to do a weekend at Joshua National Park!!!

~Be a size 6

~Learn to use ALL machines on the gym floor

~Make 1 more motivation posters

~Be healthy enough to do a 2-3 day hike

My Program:
I am eating clean and exercising to get to my goal weight....i have looked at many weight loss options over the years and find that eating clean is the one that suites me the best. I feel good doing it and that's important...

Personal Information:
I'm a cali girl with a southern soul...i was born and raised in so cal but dream of heading back east to TN where the leaves change color in the fall. I am a single mom to an 8 year old little girl who was recently diagnosed with Type one diabetes.

Other Information:
I love to read, and I am super into Photography... hopefully as I get more fit I will be able to get some great nature shots in places I never imagined I'd go!

"I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I’m out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

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    Cancer is introverted, reserved, emotional, sensitive, moody, sympathetic, security-conscious, prudent, retentive, domestic, maternal, protective, quiet, calm, imaginative, conscientious, and quite the traditionalist.
    Cancer gets along with Pisces, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn.
    In Cancer the Sun is receptive and moody. You are a very sensitive person who is easily influenced by your environment. You are likely to be exceedingly protective of your feelings, as well as the feelings of those to whom you are close. Emotions are strong in your nature. You approach life with many feelings and a strong nurturing tendency. Your moods are varied and changeable. They are synchronized to the Moon, flowing in and out like the tide. You are acutely aware of the atmosphere of feelings surrounding you. You're skeptical and distrustful of people. It's not what they say, but simply the way they say it and the way you interpret their meaning.
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    Hardworking and dedicated, you make an excellent employee. You are loyal and respect authority. This makes you supportive and protective of the boss and rarely questioning company policy. You do find it very difficult to handle change and disruption. If you are the boss, you like your employees to be dedicated as you are. Unfortunately, sometimes you may surround yourself with "yes men" who simply reinforce your decisions. You don't take chances or risk sweeping change.
    Money is very important to you. Not for what it will buy or for the freedom it provides, but for the sense of security it provides. No matter what else is to be said of Cancer, security and having the protective shell in place, is overriding.
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    2679 days ago
    Happy belated Birthday! I'm sorry I missed your birthday yesterday. I hope you had a wonderful time on your special day!

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    Happy belated Birthday to you!
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    May all of your wishes come true!
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    Hoping it was a wonderful and memorable day!
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    Sending birthday hugs your way!
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    ~ Monika ~ emoticon
    2679 days ago
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