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#52: Point of Reference

Thursday, August 20, 2009

What is your point of reference regarding your journey to fitness?

I read another member's blog this morning where she explained that she was at the weight she had set as a goal for herself. Now, she wants to lose more and realized that she had set a goal that was too easily reached. Her point of reference changed.

An old joke tells of a car race between representatives from California and those from New York. The car from New York finished ahead of the one from California. In the New York newspapers it was reported that New York finished first while California came in dead last. In the California newspapers it was reported that California had finished second while New York came in next to last.

It's all in the point of reference. Both versions are accurate, just framed differently.

I talked via email with another member who had lost three pounds. The way she described her weight loss was to say, "Two more pounds and I will have lost five pounds altogether."

Or take the employee who began working with his company in August. In September, when he was asked how long he had worked for the firm, he answered, "Next August will be one year."

Both of these people are correct. It's their point of reference that's different than that of most people.

The next time you feel as if you are not progressing, try changing your point of view and see if you feel better, perhaps more focused and happier with yourself and your situation. If you have lost 2 pounds but want to lose a total of 10, say to yourself and others, "Eight more pounds and I will have lost 10 pounds altogether."

By looking ahead we will lead our thoughts from what has passed -- the two pounds, for example -- to the future. By changing our point of reference we may see the road of our journey more clearly and with a more positive outlook.
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  • FITKAT2010
    Very true, and very wise.
    4209 days ago
    Awesome blog. And, Little-H, excellent scripture!
    4210 days ago
    When we can't change a situation , it often does help just to change our perspective. Joy
    4210 days ago
    Thank you, Lou! I am once again inspired. Have a great day! emoticon
    4211 days ago
  • no profile photo CD5002230
    I'm practicing that attitude with my negative memories. By changing the reference point, I'm redefining my future. It's no longer "something bad happened to me". It has become "God lead me and walked with me through a tough thing. In the end, I know God better.
    4211 days ago
  • TEDYBEAR2838
    What are great idea! I'm sure it will help Lots of folks to change their point of reference. I know it has helped me. It's no longer looking at the large amount of weight to lose, it's one baby, do-able step, at a time.

    4211 days ago
  • JUST4ME927
    Perspective is powerful. Thank you for reminding me of that!
    4211 days ago
    Good encouragement. As I wrote this morning, I started out depressed at not being perfect yesterday, but once I looked at all the successes I had, I feel pretty good and am ready to start fresh again today.

    "This I recall to my mind,
    Therefore have hope.
    The Lord's lovingkindnesses indeed never cease.
    For His compassions never fail.
    They are new every morning;
    Great is Your faithfulness."

    ~ Lamentations 3:21-23
    4211 days ago
    Today, every time I feel negative about myself, or down about something I have not accomplished, I will change the point of reference. Thanks for this.
    4211 days ago
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