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#132: The Man with the Shined Shoes

Sunday, November 08, 2009

Many years ago when I worked as a hospital's personnel interviewer I learned a lesson in discipline and self-respect from a job applicant's shined shoes.

We had advertised for an incinerator operator, perhaps one of the lowest positions on the job rung, but a busy one and one that required personal responsibility and the ability to work independently.

One day an elderly man strode into the office, introduced himself and announced that he was a candidate for the position, displaying a positive attitude from the beginning.

As we talked, I looked at his mis-matched clothes and thought that at least he'd made an effort to wear a jacket and tie, even though those items and his trousers were worn and faded.

But it was his shoes that caught my attention. They possessed a high gloss usually found on shoes of people who had served in the Armed Forces.

"Were you in the military?" I asked.

"Yes sir," he replied.

"I thought so. The shoes gave you away."

He smiled and explained that he had been out of work for some time, that employers seemed reluctant to hire someone his age. But, he assured me, he was strong and had good stamina and was in the habit of coming to work on time and not calling in sick.

I looked again at his shoes. Even the areas where the little ridges are along the edges of his shoes were polished. Usually an old toothbrush will do the trick of getting polish in the grooves.

I realized then that although he wasn't dressed in modern attire, that the job did not require him to be so adorned. I knew, too, that the discipline he had retained from his military service not only drove him to dress in his best clothes but also to not leave the house with dirty, un-shined shoes.

This was the responsibility and discipline the job required. A self-starter who needn't be supervised every minute of the day.

I thought of this man whose name I can no longer recall as I sat tonight shining my own shoes with my old toothbrush and realized that we should not judge a person by the outer package they present but by the inner attitude they display.

We hired that man and were not sorry we did.

I may not remember the man's name, but the impression he made on me has lasted for 35 years. Not only because of his positive attitude and the self-respect he possessed but also because of his shined shoes.
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    Amazing story.
    4129 days ago
  • no profile photo CD4114015
    As always, an awesome blog and so thought provoking. Thank you for posting, Lou.

    4129 days ago
    Love it! So very true. We are quick to judge the outside and a lot of people miss out on meeting great people because of that. Thanks for sharing!
    4130 days ago
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    This was a great story, thank you for sharing. I think you're absolutely right, it's the inside that matters the most - and yet, people often judge others by the way the look or what they are wearing.

    This was a nice reminder :)

    4130 days ago
    emoticon Here is a gold star for shinning your shoes.
    Thanks for sharing your life with all of us. emoticon
    4130 days ago
  • HOLLY1949
    Interesting , thanks for sharing the story with us. Holly
    4130 days ago
    Awesome story, Lou! Dignity has not to do with how nice your clothes but in how well you do with what you have. This is a lesson we try to teach our 17 year old son.
    4130 days ago
    Great story!
    4130 days ago
    That's a great story, Lou. Attention to detail is very important. This man shined his shoes because it was important to him. And you noticed that, where others may have over looked that important detail.

    Too many times people are judged by their outward appearance, rather than for the qualities they possess. Thanks for a beautiful reminder.
    4130 days ago
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