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Venting Again

Thursday, March 04, 2010

So here I go again, letting off steam for my situation and learning how to deal with it and take care of myself. My son tells me this am that Mija my DIL is gone till Sunday again. This is the second week in a row. Guess she has a conference in Myrtle Beach till Sunday and she left this am. So he says to me can I go play poker tonight and tomorrow. I hate how they never inform me of there schedules till it happens. There is no respect there. He puts me on the spot and makes it look like there is nothing wrong with what he does. Me I am wondering how do I take care of the dog and the grandson and take care of self too. I also feel they are not fair to Beto my grandson. So I made my son at least give me the car for tonight so we are not locked up in house and I can take him out and give him a good time too. It is not fair to him either. So I am going to try and make the best of it for us and let my son go and do hi thing. In all of this I have to take care of self and do a workout too.

I have to be resolved to the fact they do not want to be considerate of me and it is my problem as to how they are and I will have to learn to fix the situation. That is what I am trying to do here. Am I learning and doing ok??

Thanks for being here so I do not go crazy in all of this stuff. emoticon emoticon emoticon
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  • no profile photo CD5217955

    You can do anything you want. You have proven that.
    3688 days ago
    I understand and am sorry you are in this spot. Until a few years ago I could relate to this situation, then I started using my "NO" muscles in my face. It took awhile but it worked and I get and give the respect needed.

    Bet you enjoy your grandson bunches.
    3689 days ago
    emoticon Just remember that you have to put yourself first. Sometime kids just don't understand how disrespectful they can be. I'm so sorry you are going through a rough time, but I'm glad you are trying to make time for you!! Keep your chin up and I'm sure things will get better!!!

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    3689 days ago
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