Update on my 17 year old.
Thursday, January 20, 2011
First of all, I want to thank everyone that posted on my blog titled "Where am I going wrong".
Tuesday, the 18th, I picked my daughter up at school, and got a pregnancy test. It is positive. No, I'm not happy about it right now.
About my husband. He handled it ALOT better than I did, even though he had no clue they were even doing anything. He had questions for her, such as...Do you not know what causes this?, Does he not know what causes this? Now he has 2 babies, that will be 1 year and 1 month apart by 2 different women. Is he going to be there for you next year? Will he have another one by another woman by then? etc. He is not turning his back on her, and I didn't have to force him into it either. So I am so thankful for that!
We are suppose to talk to the guy tonight. If he don't show up, there are going to be some problems. I made a list on what I want to talk to him about. My husband says he don't have anything to say to the boy.
A friend of mine said something to me that made me feel alot better about it. I'm still not happy about it, but I do feel better than I did before. She said....."You can think of it like this. You love your daughter and have shown her love throughout her life. She will pass the same kind of love down to her baby. So her baby will have the same kind of love and support as she did." I just never thought of it that way.
We have a tough road ahead of us, but we will get through it, as we did with our oldest daughter.
Thank you all for listening.
May God bless you!!