Saturday, February 05, 2011
I recently an acquaintence moved to my city, and well since she doesn`t know anyone she`s kinda been...clingy.
Which is well fair enough, I`m not really the most social of animals but I`m trying to be nice. And I`m fine to socialise, as long as the focus isn`t around alcohole.
Like today she invited me around for tequilla, and I politely explained I`d rather eat cals than drink them chasing a dissapointing buzz. But she`s still twisting my arm and I`m just wondering...a bit of insequirty going on?
Like in the past she`s told me I`m not fat really, and say something like no I`m not but I have various reasons for doing this.
Then a bit later she`s like, I don`t think I`M fat...I`m like, of course you`re not...like uhh I feel so awkward commenting on someones shape cos who am I to judge something like that!
But I`m just wondering...is maybe she feeling a bit insecure? :/
Like I`ve got my mini goal and my 10k race coming up so I`ve been trying super hard so i`m all yeaaaah I done a 6.4k run!! And maybe she has her own insecurities so hence I get the `you don`t need to loose weight` and `come over and get drunk` thing...*sigh*
I think I`m gonna have to be a little clearer that I don`t really want to hang out when the focus is alcohole, and suggest alternatives like a walk or even just watching a movie, just something where I don`t need to drink and undo all my good work
Being social has so many pittfalls!