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Friday, November 04, 2011

So i broke up with my boyfriend (again)....and GUESS WHAT?? I'm OK!!!

I thought once the anger and hatefulness wore off it would be like last time and i would miss him like crazy and be heartbroken and all that jazz....but I'm not...

I have realized i don't have time for his bullship...my time and energy are to valuable to be used on people who choose to make themselves a trivial part of my life, and who choose to be mean...and they are sure as HECK to valuable to be used on someone who needs help with anger and emotional issues but flat out refuses to get it (even after admitting needing it!!)

My life is full, im starting a business, i have a little one, i have amazing and wonderful friends and a great family....So im single, so what, its truly not the end of the world....and i truly don't need someone else validating me to make me good enough....

Once upon a time i knew this girl...she was shy and basically let herself be a door mat....she moved to TN to be with her daughters father but it didn't go so well....he was mean, aggressive and abusive...one cold blustery January day she'd had enough....she packed her truck with the few things she considered valuable, grabbed what money she had, hopped in the car with her little girl they made the 2100 mile drive back to California....she drove through blinding rain, and snow, she was chased out of Oklahoma by a rare winter tornado, she got stuck in blizzard conditions in some random Texas town and spend a 2 degree night bundled up with the little one in some motel in New Mexico....BUT SHE MADE IT!!! and for that she was stronger....

That girl was me....I thought id lost her.....but reality is she was just waiting to come out and play again!!!

I thought i'd be lonely, but im not....fact of the matter is I really don't have the time, the energy or the patience to deal with other people BS....and i would truly rather be single then have to....

Tonight a bunch of my friends are coming over, we are going to make a spaghetti dinner and watch movies till dawn...everyone's bringing extra blankets and there kids....in the morning we will cook a yummy breakfast, makes TONS of coffee (we have to be able to keep up with the kids LOL) and spend the day having fun! Sounds like a perfect Friday night to me!!!

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  • MZSLEEPE1
    emoticon Sounds absolutely fabulous to me!! Good luck!! I raised my 3 alone. Went through an on again mostly off again break up earlier this year and just recently met Mr. Wonderful! My kids are happy and so am I!! I know it takes strength and patience but we're women we can handle it!! You got this!! Celebrate you fabulous self!! Have fun!!
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