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My Baby Bro's Wedding! (Valentine's Appropriate, eh?)

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

WHAT A WEEK! Whew! Glad its over. I still feel like I'm recovering. Anyhow, the week was completely hectic and full starting the minute I stepped foot off the Greyhound onto El Centro soil. I slept only 1 hour and dozed [sorta] on the bus for 2 hours. I shopped until I dropped! Most days we went to no less than 3 stores picking up supplies. I got my hair cut on Wednesday, the longest shopping day ever! 7+ hours: Starting with Wal-Mart, Target, Food4Less, Costco, Smart & Final, and Vons. I know most of you don't know anything about El Centro, but it plain ol' sucks. Obviously, it took 6 stores to get everything we needed. We also spent 3 solid hours cleaning my grandmother's patio and doing some yard work, as that's where we had the reception. We didn't take any breaks in that 3 hours, either. We left there a sweaty, sticky, dusty, leafy, wood/paint chippy mess. Worse case of allergies ever- for all 3 of us.

Thursday morning I woke up bright and early. And spent the ENTIRE DAY cooking for the dinner. I made bruschetta (just tomatoes, feta, and basil) and sliced up 3 baguettes, two kinds of hummus (roasted red pepper and spicy), baked macaroni and cheese (using gruyere and havarti cheeses, artichoke hearts, and spinach), chocolate and colorful candied mustache and lip lollipops, cupcakes in a jar, and wedding cake. I also handmade a topper for it. In addition to what I made, my aunt made her famous whole wheat dinner rolls, my grandma made a green salad (salad bar style!), my other aunt made the cocktails, and my mom made two huge briskets and two racks of baby back ribs. We also had rice crispies treats, petit fours, and snickerdoodles; and savories we had my mom's famous potato salad and roasted veggies. It was a veritable feast, washed down with iced tea, lemonade, and Dr. Pepper.

I was a flurry of teal the entire night, as I was the one putting this shindig on.

The morning of the ceremony I got up extra early and baked the sponge cake. I painted my nails, ironed my dress and my brother's suit, and generally got everyone going. As I was a witness, I had to be at the courthouse early with the bride and groom. My parents came later. And we all realized my other brother was missing from the action. Well, we couldn't stall the ceremony, so we went through with it. Turns out my poor brother was there the whole time! He just didn't know where to go. So, he missed the ceremony. I felt so terrible, I wanted to cry. He was pretty upset also. :-( It was important for us all to be there, as the bride's flaky parents didn't even bother to show up. They didn't object to the wedding, they love my brother and my family. They're just flakes, plain and simple.

The "wedding party". I was Best Man. Then there's the groom, my baby brother Ethan. Then, Lauren, my beautiful sister-in-law, and Viviana, the Matron of Honor.

The dining area in the yard.

Beautiful lantern on the table.

Bottles with daisies and carnations (and the cupcake in a jar)
Anyway, it was crazy getting everything decorated and food warmed and plated and set out, but I got through it. By the time I got everything done, I didn't even want to eat dinner. I munched a small plate of food while I assembled the wedding cake. It was made with whipped cream and fresh berries, so it needed to be assembled and eaten pretty quickly. It was a delicious cake! It was a wonderful night, surrounded with loved ones and delicious eats. I got home at about 11pm and don't even remember my head hitting the pillow.

The wedding cake with handmade topper!

Decorations and food area, side 1.

Decorations and food area, side 2.
The next morning I woke up and headed to the Holtville Carrot Festival parade with my dad. He owns a 1970 Chevrolet El Camino (his very first car) and is part of a car club. They named themselves "The Drifter's Car Club" which I think is totally lame. I suggested they call themselves "Old Guys with Old Cars". Much better, in my humble opinion! ;-) Anyway, we drove through the parade, I drank a sh*tty cup of gas station coffee, and I got a giant 3 or 4 gallon bag of fresh produce- it was "fill your bag with as much as you can" for only $5!! The sad thing is, this is the only farmer's market type thing in the Imperial Valley (the Farmer's Market they have once a year doesn't even have any fresh produce to buy). Its pathetic considering its a HUGE agricultural area. The entire Imperial Valley is completely and totally surrounded by fields and agriculture.

My dad's truck

The car parade line-up. My dad's is the 3rd car. The 2nd one is my dream car!

One side of the festival in the town square.

The other side, with the carnival and cars from another club.
Anyway, that was a fun day. I saw some old friends, had some fresh fish tacos, saw some more of my family. It was nice to revisit it, as I grew up attending that festival. Super awesome!

Me & the other witness, Vivi.
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  • CANNIE50
    WOW - that sounds exhausting but what a labor of love and such a warm way for your family to welcome your new s.i.l. as an official member of the family (sounds like she needs a back-up family for sure). You look so great in your dress and your hair is adorable.
    3349 days ago
    Wow! Sounds like you did an amazing job - and you looked fabulous too! emoticon
    3349 days ago
    WOW you really pulled all that off!! That's amazing! What an awesome sister :) That cake looks so fresh and delicious too, yum!
    3350 days ago
    HOLY COW you did a great job on everything!!!! Amazing. I love the cake, the decorations, the setting, the feel of it - lovely and simple! Gave me some ideas for my own type of thing ;)
    3350 days ago
    Looks great. I can't imagine cooking all that food. I'm not exactly a good cook. emoticon
    3350 days ago
    Sounds like a whirlwind wedding weekend! You looked beautiful, I love your hair and dress!
    3350 days ago
  • ABB698
    Love the shorter do and your dress is gorgeous! Wow, you were a whirlwind of wedding madness, but it all turned out beautiful! Your Dad's car is awesome, and yes, I cannot believe Imperial has no fresh produce when that's what the area is! Maybe they're so tired of harvesting it, they don't want to eat it too? Your cake looks so yummy! Your brother is lucky to have a sister like you!
    3350 days ago
    Wow Jilly! You were a COOKIN, shoppin, plannin, MOVIN, GROOVIN, lady! Amazing!
    Lets get this said...you looked great! Love the short cut "do"! I have a question...how did you have a wedding without the groom? I was confused! And was the gal in White the bride? Who was the gal at the end with long hair?
    You really did good! Great job!
    Hope you had a great Val- Day!
    3350 days ago
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    Sounds like you had a marvelous time, even if you had to work your a$$ off to help bring it all together. You look lovely in your teal dress, and I really love the new hairdo! Best wishes for your brother and his beautiful new bride.
    3350 days ago
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