On March 1 2012, my son Sal died in a car accident. his friend was going 100 miles an hour.
He was 26. please always tellyourkidshow much you love them and that your proud of them.I will never be happyagain
I lost my son Nov. 1999. He was 18. He had a heart attack from a bad heart valve we didn't know about. It is sooo very hard to go on living. The only thing you can really do is go thru the motions of daily life. Taking care of yourself and your family. One day you will be surprised that you actually smiled and meant it. Take comfort in the fact that your son knew that you loved him and you know he loved you. He will always be a part of you. 2516 days ago
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Sal. I lost my son Shane March 2013 at the age of 27. I was a single mom and he and i had an unshakable bond. I still cry most days. Sometimes a few days will go by and then it hits me like a punch in the gut. I know that our bond lives on because love never dies. I hold onto the thought of being reunited with him someday. I would go crazy if I thought I'd never be with him again, in some form, somewhere. A piece of my heart died along with my son. I'm just trying to live the best way that I can with what I have left. Big hugs to you. 2520 days ago
I am so sorry for the loss of your son and I understand what you are going though, because I lost my niece who was the greatest and now I will never ever see her again, but she is and Angel now as well as your son is and he is watching you from Heaven, now may you find friends here on sparks to get you though the bad times of losing, your son so so sorry dear sparkfriend.
I am so sorry. I lost my son five years ago when he was 21 years old. Different circumstances, but I can imagine what you are feeling. Your Sal will be with you forever, but not in the way you had imagined. My prayers are with you and your family at this terrible time of loss. Sal will rest in peace because he is one of God's children... and will be forever missed by you because of your love for him... although it doesn't seem possible now, you will live again.. in part to carry on the memory of him.
Please write if you need to "talk". I have walked this path and the grieve can be immense and almost unbearable.... honour both Sal and your grieve... and know that every one grieves differently, there are no right ways to grieve... jan 3318 days ago
Darlene, I just can't imagine what you are going through. You have my prayers, my hugs, and my ear (well eyes I guess) if you ever just need to message someone to get out your feelings/emotions. HUGS! 3364 days ago
How devastating for you. There are no words that could possibly relieve your sorrow at this time since you must still be in the state of shock. Allow others to help you grieve. There are grief counselors available at most hospitals. There are support groups where others who have experienced similar losses assist each other in releasing their emotions and adjusting to their loss. How I wish I could hug you right now. You are so deeply in my thoughts. Contact me any time on my Sparkpage if you need to vent. 3365 days ago