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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

UGGGHHHH!!!!!!!! So I have a son from my first marriage, Joey. He lives with dad. I'm not thrilled with it, but he wanted it and financially, his father can take better care of him than I can. Originally, the court order said I was to see him one day every week, and then he stays at my house every other weekend. Well, in the summer, he had started getting mouthy with me so I grounded him from his cell phone at my house because he was using the cell phone to say nasty and just plain rude things to me. He naturally threw a fit and went crying to his daddy, who gives him what he wants when he wants. My ex then started telling me that my son is not allowed at my house without the cell phone. This had gone on for two months. In the mean time, I filed contempt papers with the court. Then one day, we both received a call from DCF saying that someone filed a report against my ex. The report ended up being false, thank goodness. But when the DCF worker was asking me what my son had said about it, I was honest with her and told her about how my ex was keeping my son from me because of the cell phone. She told my ex that was not allowed and he called me up that day and told me I was aloud to see him. I asked the worker if I should cancel the contempt hearing and she said no, so I didn't. Well, we went to court today. And I got screwed. I only communicate with my ex through text messages so I proof of what is said. So as soon as he started denying that he said I couldn't take my son, I pulled out the pictures and proved that he said it. But yet, for some stupid and strange reason, that I don't understand, I had 3/4 of my visitations removed! So now I only get to take my son from Friday after school until Saturday morning EVERY OTHER WEEKEND!!!!!!! Tell me how that's even a visit! It's so unfair!

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    We go back to court Dec 13 about it.
    2526 days ago
    appeal the decision!
    2527 days ago
    Court systems sometimes suck and don't always do what is best. I'm finding more and more men are getting what they want in court. It's not even because they necessarily want the kids more but more of a power trip.

    Hang in there.
    2553 days ago
    Sounds like quite a mess. I'm sorry for your stress.

    Hang in there.
    2554 days ago
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