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Blast from the past

Friday, July 25, 2014

4 years ago, my marriage almost ended. We finally worked things out & have been fine since, or so I thought. Last week, seemingly out of the blue, the situation re-surfaced...at least that was the first I'd seen of it.

I'm hurt. I'm lost. All of those feelings I thought I had a handle on came rushing back. I just don't know what to do...
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    I'm so sorry.... Been there, and I suspect perhaps for the same reason you didn't specify...

    Breathe, know you're not alone, let the feelings be what they are. You'll know what to do when you need to.
    2407 days ago
  • RX_2_RV

    2408 days ago
    So proud of you!
    2408 days ago
    Take care of yourself - easier said than done, I know, but do it even if it is just for ten or fifteen minutes at a time.
    2408 days ago
    So sorry to hear you're having a hard time. I hope it gets better soon. emoticon and you can contact me any time if you need a friend.
    2408 days ago
    Take care of YOU. Go for a walk. Call a trusted friend. Have a good cry.

    What ever has reared it's ugly head ... you can fix it.
    2408 days ago
  • 07SOJO
    Hang in there! I know it hurts. We never know why things happen while they're happening but hurt can turn out for better later on. I was so hurt years ago, I fell into a depression. I finally made it through and today, I am glad I went through that hurt. It has made me a better and more insightful person. Very hard lessons learned but I'm still here and life goes on! I pray you will find comfort and courage through your hurt.
    2408 days ago
    I'm sorry that you have been hurt again. Take one day at a time. Unfortunately, you cannot completely control this situation. The only things you can control are you and how you handle this. I wish you nothing but the best! emoticon
    2409 days ago
    You said you got through it before, and you will again. Just try to focus on the now. What is going on right now. Do not let your mind travel to the past, or future, this will only overwhelm you in thought. Stick to the basic needs of the day, go for walks, this will help you to work things out in your mind, and help with the emotions. I always go walk it out when I am feeling to much inside. It really helps, even if it is only for 10 minutes, it will help. If you need to let it all out and need a friend, email me. I will listen. emoticon
    2409 days ago
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