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Thursday, October 02, 2014

Something i dont understand is why people like to start rumors about people. There is this girl in my complex that doesnt like me now bc of a rumor a former neighbor of mine told his friends about me, which wasnt a nice one. He told his friends that we did stuff we never did, all i ever did with hm was talk or chat with him, i mostly hung out with the girl that lived there. I know there are a lot of women out there that dont like me bc there are a lot of guys that like me, what can or am i supposed to do about how i look? Am i suppose to like put a paper bag over my face with eye things cut out? Really i have more guy friends then chick friends because i find that most of the girls that are around me cause way too much drama, and i dont like that around me, i have a very sensitive nervous system, and if it gets thrown off even just a little i end up having panick attacks and bad depression.

There are a lot of guy friends that i have lost bc the girl gets jealous and doesnt want him to talk to me anymore and the reason is im too pretty every time. I know i cant do anything about it, but if people get to know me better and gave me a chance they would see im not the type of person they think i am, i just like to have friends. Im not trying to steal anyone away from anyone. Oh well guess thats how the world works.
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    As long as you KNOW the truth, don't sweat it or lower yourself to their standards. Keep moving towards your goals. And if they should across your path, treat them with kindness (and pray for them).
    2206 days ago
  • PUNKGIRL5003
    Thank you everyone, i really do appreciate the support kindness and friendships from all of you, it makes me happy to know ppl have got my back, and i have yours. :)
    2220 days ago
    Awe man, that's rough! People talking about you behind your back is not fun! You're a nice person, and don't need to deal with that. You've got friends here, who aren't going to start rumors!

    2220 days ago
    Sounds like those $#!@#@ need either 1) a clue, 2) a "living-wage" type of job, 3) a life, or more than likely *all of the above*!

    Sorry you had to deal with that 43!@#!

    2220 days ago
    I guess it's their loss if they don't take time to know you. emoticon
    2220 days ago
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