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Days 371 & 372 - Regret Nothing

Sunday, December 06, 2015



It is human nature to feel bad about our mistakes, to stew over missteps, and to remember the bad times more than the good ones.

Other than spending some time learning how to avoid those errors in the future, it is a waste of energy to mull over things that make you unhappy. They happened, it sucks, and now it's time to move on. The only thing I try to do is figure out how to fix it.

Everything that happens to you, both positive and negative, becomes a piece in the jigsaw puzzle that is you. They are the threads in your fabric. The tiles in your mosaic. Use those images to appreciate all that life gives you.

We are all amazing, fascinating, cherished beings. Let's celebrate that this holiday season!

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  • FLORIDASUN
    Love this 'spot on' reflection. We were where we were supposed to be, experiencing what we were supposed to be experiencing at the time is how I look at my past.

    Some major blunders WHO PICKS A SPOUSE simply by the way he looks and how muscle bound he is? A 13 year old dum~dum of a girl that doesn't have much life experience..that's who. Married at 17 was a disaster for 10 years...but guess what...it taught me how LUCKY I am to be married to the man I am today and how appreciative I am for a relationship built on respect and admiration for shared goals and companionship...NOT looks alone! Had I not experienced that earlier blunder I probably wouldn't be as happy as I am in our marriage of 38 years today.

    We are the sum total of our experiences good and bad and I'd say yours shaped you up to be a pretty doggone good human my friend! emoticon
    1906 days ago
  • OBIESMOM2
    preach it, brother!

    every mistake I've made brought me to where I am today...and I'm fine with that.
    1908 days ago
  • 911BRAD
    This is a good reminder to keep moving forward. Thanks for the blog... great message!
    1909 days ago
  • no profile photo CD15118206
    I needed to hear that today. Thank you my dear friend!
    1909 days ago
  • MARINGAL
    Boy oh boy, did I do some major damage in the past. But I 90% don't think about it anymore and just live in the limelight of NOW. Thanx for you blog sweetie. Hugs.
    1910 days ago
  • MEWHENRYSMAMA
    Steve,
    This is one of your best blogs!
    Thank you for your words of wisdom and reminder that the past is past and it's time to move on and not look back! Our journey makes us who we are!
    I am glad your journey brought you here!
    Hugs,
    Mary
    1910 days ago
  • PICKIE98
    I used to be embarrassed about the things i did many years ago, BUT I learned, loved, laughed and met many wonderful people along the way. I would never have met these people in this life if not for the choices I made back when..
    1910 days ago
  • PJDANIELS
    Love this. Had just this type of conversation with my 15 year old granddaughter not long ago. She asked me if I regretted my earlier marriages which ended in divorce, if it was a mistake marrying that person? I told her absolutely not, every choice I made, every path I chose, every consequence I suffered, was a lesson. Every lesson taught me what I needed to know to be the person I am today. No mistakes, just lessons. --Pam
    1910 days ago
  • no profile photo JEANNETTE59
    We are human, we are imperfect, we can learn from our mistakes and move forward or we can wallow in guilt and self pity and be stuck forever going nowhere.
    Why do some people choose the latter path? Sometimes out of fear, sometimes because they have been bullied and belittled.
    If you know someone who is struggling with self doubt, reassure them that they are worthy of living their best life. Be a friend!

    Life is good, enjoy!
    1910 days ago
  • FITNIK2020
    I agree, this is perfect and I like the analogies. I am reminded of a song by Piaf... Non, Je ne regret rien... No, I regret nothing
    1910 days ago
  • JJMPLSMN
    This is perfect.

    What happened ten minutes ago is of no relevance anymore. There is not a darned thing we can do about it, and we MUST stop obsessing about things that we didn't do, and never should have any remorse anymore for roads not taken.

    What is in front of us is all that matters, and your trail looks long, straight, an easy slope, and full of happiness.

    I am DELIGHTED for you!!!

    Spark on, my friend.
    1910 days ago

    Comment edited on: 12/6/2015 11:14:07 AM
  • PITS123
    What happened has happened. We are who we are because of where we have gone in life!!
    1910 days ago
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