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On Memorial Day - Proud to be a Veteran

Friday, May 27, 2016

This was my blog last Memorial Day. I decided to share it again this year.

Memorial Day is a United States federal holiday which occurs every year on the final Monday of May. It is a day of remembering the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces

I am proud to say that I am a USAF veteran.

I enlisted when I was 22 and worked on the flight line at Travis AFB doing a job that, until that time, had not been held by many women.

(After all this time I still couldn’t find an image of a woman doing it.)

When a back injury required job retraining I was sent to Biloxi, MS to train as a Personal Affairs Specialist, a job that involves notification and assistance of the families of military personnel killed while on active duty. I felt that when a serviceman went to war he trusted that someone would be there to help his family if he didn’t return. It was a job that required compassion and transcended politics.

I was a Vietnam Era Vet. My 10th year high school reunion had a memorial to the former students killed in that war, many had been my friends.

Memorial Day honors those who gave their lives in service of our country. I don't believe anyone wants to go to war. No one wants to fight. No one wants to die fighting. There are 58,195 names on the Vietnam War Memorial Wall in Washington, DC.

So, why am I proud to be a veteran?

… because I believe in patriotism. Patriotism (according to Wikipedia) is defined as “A cultural attachment to one's homeland, a devotion to one's country.” It isn’t defined by political beliefs or even agreement with what the current political climate may be. To me it is the belief that our country, even though it may be not be perfect, is something worth defending.

I was born here, grew up here, raised my children here, and will die here. I think sometimes I look at our country the way I look at my children, I don’t always agree with their opinions or actions but I love them and would give my life for them.

I have had the privilege of visiting Washington DC and touring Arlington Cemetery.

I attended the changing of the guard at The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.

My name is on the wall at the Women in Military Service for America Memorial

In 2005 my husband and I visited Mt. Rushmore and I participated, with other veterans, in the flag lowering ceremony at dusk.

These are all memories I treasure, because they symbolize freedom.

So, on Memorial Day enjoy your family, enjoy your BBQ, enjoy the glimpse of summer to come.

But while you are enjoying those things also remember those who gave their all for the freedom’s we enjoy. A soldier doesn’t fight for politics but to preserve home, family and way of life.

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    Carolyn, thank you for sharing this, and thank you for your Service.
    1840 days ago
    Thank you for your Service !

    And thank you once again for this blog.
    1841 days ago
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    Each year, since I've been a sparker, I've read this Memorial Day Blog of yours and each year I cry. I would always have that final thought that I will be okay, reading, remembering, and honoring, but I cry again and again. I'm not sure if I cry because I'm sad about the state that our country is in, with so many people, not even caring. Or, if it's for those who gave the ultimate sacrifice, to what appears to be a thankless country. Oh how I long to get back to the basics, which means, to me, GOD and Country. GOD will heal our land, if we return to HIM, that is a promise in His Word.


    - Nancy Jean -
    1842 days ago
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