Missing my Sister 😏
Tuesday, April 25, 2017
Hello Sparkers....let me start by saying I'm greatful for all the positivity and motivation here...if we all could live like this it would be a much nicer place.
Well my sister and I are close in age and over the years its been kinda difficult staying close to her. As for lately.. we haven't talked in almost 6 months...although I try to communicate by sending her text and greeting pics over the phone, she doesn't seem to want to be involved with me. Back in Oct. myself and my older sister (who is single) took a road trip to see my brother who lives 400 miles away.He recently moved across the state for his retirement years. We did not mention it to our younger sister that we were going to visit him for a couple days.She had already went to see him 3 times previously w/ her daughter and another 2 times w/ fiancee .She hadn't mentioned it to either of us at the time when they visited ,and wasnt a big deal to us.Well when she found out that we were on our way she got really upset w/ us. She actually told us (by text) that we could both go jump in the lake. ( he lives on a lake ) well we took it as a joke and sent her a pic of us as if we were jumping in the lake ...boy was she offended and we didn't even realize ! We did say we didn't mean to hurt her feelings but the sister that drove actually had a compact car w/ no trunk....We'll it's been 6 months and she has a cold shoulder towards both of us....I don't feel that we did anything wrong , but don't know how to approach her w/ this concept...it seems that we always have to walk on eggshells around her for we may get her upset with the slightest comment. She gets upset often and I don't want her to feel that we are against her but I think that she just brings us all down with her feelings of being betrayed ...😣 I miss my lil sis and wish we could all just get along.