SP Premium
CALAMITIE
80,000-99,999 SparkPoints 96,750
SparkPoints
 

CALAMITIE's Blogs

Day 726 It got worse today. Much worse.
Tuesday, August 09, 2016      6 comments

I picked my dad up at 9 for his bath and then we went back to the apt. to get my brother who was having breakfast with mom. So off we went to todays appointments. They went so so. But we didn't get back until just after 4 and I had an appoin... Read more
Day 725 I am empty......no more to give right now.
Monday, August 08, 2016      4 comments

After todays explosion I just am not in a position to take it anymore. I have nothing much more to give. When I got there this afternoon I was informed he wasn't speaking to me. But in the next breath he had plenty to say. He wanted his car... Read more
Day 724 Enough is enough....no more trip to the ER.
Sunday, August 07, 2016      4 comments

I set off today to do some quilt shop hopping. I had a path all laid out that would have taken me about 4 hours and the dog and I were going to have a pleasant afternoon. I never even got to the first shop...the nurse calls. You dad can't bre... Read more
Day 723 Ahhh a whole day at home
Saturday, August 06, 2016      3 comments

I got the day here with my pets today. I planned to clean but kept getting distracted. I'd go into a room to pick something up and end up going to another room to put something away and them into another to deal with something I picked up in t... Read more
Day 722 Ok that's done...one more day of appointments for dad
Saturday, August 06, 2016      5 comments

The laser for the eye pressure was hard today. There is a lot of my dad in me. I hate things any where near my eyes. Then when he found out the pressure in his right eye was almost as bad as the left and he needed the treatment in both eyes h... Read more
Day 721 First time in 2 weeks there was no emergency.
Friday, August 05, 2016      2 comments

I was able to stay home all day. I did make several phone calls on behalf of my dad to try to figure out what is going on with his eye appointments and more information about a VA program. I started cleaning the bathroom but didn't get t... Read more
Day 720 This was a hard day all around.
Wednesday, August 03, 2016      2 comments

According to the paper work my dad had 3 appointments at the VA clinic. That means an hour car ride to get there. I had no idea what all those appointments were for but thought maybe one of them would be the physical he didn't get last week be... Read more
Day 719 Only 3 more days of running around. Yea.
Tuesday, August 02, 2016      3 comments

I so agree Koffee but ever since I retired about 20 years ago I've wondered how I ever managed to work full time, have super active kids, and sort of keep house or do laundry. Today I took dad to his whirlpool bath and then talked to them ab... Read more
Day 718 We have appeared to have reached resigned to this new ...
Monday, August 01, 2016      1 comments

Dad wanted some bakery treats yesterday so today when I went in to talk with Medicare and his supplemental insurances I stopped and grabbed one I know he likes. The rest of my day was 2 hours of phone calls that only got me half of what I wante... Read more
Day 717 More of the same.....This battle is going to drive me crazy.
Sunday, July 31, 2016      2 comments

Again today another fight about driving. You should have heard the swearing when he found out we moved his car to my house so it's not even there for him to see. And my mother also took a weird turn today. Every week there is a bus from the f... Read more
Day 716 Really can't deal with a problem for me right now.
Saturday, July 30, 2016      3 comments

Today I asked mom why she was so cooperative lately and she said it was just too much work to fight us all every time. So she just decided to be. Dad was pouting when I got there today. But when mom gave me a grocery list for tomorrow he had ... Read more
Day 715 When can I quit my parent sitting job?
Friday, July 29, 2016      5 comments

The hospital called this morning and asked me to come get him because he was not a danger to himself. That was all well and good. My mom and I set off and stopped all 3 of the quilt stores on the way and got my rows. (I hope that wasn't selfi... Read more
Day 714 Today's emotionss.
Thursday, July 28, 2016      2 comments

Thanks to so many of my Spark friends to was a little easier than it could have been. I should have made myself leave the house and not be alone with my own thoughts. But I stay home and did nothing except feed myself. I've felt relief ... Read more
Day 713 It only got worse today.
Wednesday, July 27, 2016      4 comments

I've not been a very good daughter today. Of course with very little sleep last night and my phone starting to ring about 8:30 I was up and off early again. I did not think I would be gone until almost 10 tonight tho. I am truly and utterly e... Read more
Day 712 & 1/4 It just keeps getting worse.
Wednesday, July 27, 2016      1 comments

About 1 am the care facility called. They had taken my dad to the ER because he said he couldn't breath and wanted to die again. In the car I go....pick up my mom and off to the ER. He doesn't remember what he told the nurse. But he had pushe... Read more

« First Page 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 Last Page »