You really don't need a lot of money to get married.
You don't need to lose weight to get married.
Sounds like excuses... does one of you really not want to get married?
"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand."
~ Randy Pausch
"There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results."
~ Art Turock
"We have a saying in Tibet: If a problem can be solved, there is no use worrying about it. If it can't be solved, worrying will do no good."
~ 7 Years in T