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4/3/18 12:55 P

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When you least expect it.



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looser clothes will help



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2/19/18 5:30 P

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They are noticing it now. emoticon



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If you're working out on top of losing weight, it may happen sooner.

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2/5/18 8:02 A

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People usually notice the loss sooner than they say something (unfortunately). What matters most is when YOU notice. When you feel lighter, clothes fit better, and lose that full feeling, that's it! The scale is not always the answer. :)

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Spring 👕💪👈🏼

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1/26/18 11:23 A

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Probably come spring when fewer layers of clothes are needed.



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1/25/18 7:51 P

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People noticed me when my clothes started being too big on me

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1/23/18 7:37 A

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1/17/18 5:47 P

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I think 10-15 pounds is when people start noticing.



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I prefer for people to never notice. Then you don’t get all the questions that come when they do.



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12/26/17 2:49 P

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I think it is harder for people who see you all the time to notice. Hang in there though because the time will tell. When you buy clothes that fit people will notice as well.



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For me it was 25 lbs. I had learned to dress around my weight really well. It takes a while to get to where you are showing where you really are. Others are not used to having to notice the change due to our hiding our weight



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12/14/17 5:43 A

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12/5/17 3:59 P

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I agree when you least expect it.



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12/5/17 12:19 P

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They notice when you least expect it!



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11/23/17 6:00 A

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20 lbs



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10/30/17 6:49 P

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It depends on your friends. Maybe 20lbs.



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10/28/17 9:48 P

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It depends how much you have to lose.

I am a born again Christian and I love the Lord with all my heart. He has changed my life so I now live with more peace and contentment. I no longer desire to have what some of my friends have , but know God knows my needs and I am so grateful that He has given me my needs and not my wants. I enjoy writing my daily blog Bible Verse for each day. I enjoy spending time with God every day.
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10/27/17 8:36 P

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it does not matter when people will notice it because you will be seeing it everyday. it is more important how you see yourself than other people around you. what you are doing each day should make you feel better about yourself.

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10/11/17 5:42 P

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The people you see everyday take longer to notice, but the occasional friend will say something like, "you look a little different. Did you change your hair or something?" emoticon

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10/9/17 10:29 P

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After a 30 pound loss went totally unnoticed by hubby, I thought perhaps he was too self-absorbed for marriage. I began to take his 'accidentally' locking me out as hints that he wanted me to leave.

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10/3/17 9:50 A

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If consistent should be after 8-12 weeks. Or 20 lbs.



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9/29/17 10:00 A

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I believe they say 8 weeks but i'm not sure...



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9/13/17 6:26 P

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When you have lost about 20 pounds



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9/7/17 11:52 P

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after you have dropped several clothes sizes



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8/23/17 8:50 P

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I think a lot of people are self focused and the last thing they are thinking about is how much I weigh. If we are losing weight for the affirmation of others it would be a waste and big mistake. Our motivation should be about our health and being fit enough to enjoy our lives and not always sitting things out because we don't feel up to it. I like to look nice in my clothes but most people just don't really care what I look like. Only close friends or family really care. That said I care about the extra weight that my loved ones carry because I don't want to see them with poor health now or in the future.

“Continuous effort — not strength or intelligence — is the key to unlocking our potential.”– Liane Cardes

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A few weeks at least



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8/18/17 11:44 A

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I would never personally comment on someone's weight loss unless I knew they were trying to lose weight, so it might be that they notice it but are just keeping quiet. As others have mentioned, sometimes people lose weight for not so happy reasons and it's not always appropriate to comment on. When I lost about 45 pounds a while back, I actually started to really resent all the comments about my weight loss, particularly the ones that were really effusive about how great I looked "now." That being said, those comments started coming regularly after about 25 pounds (which took me from being overweight, to just above the top of the recommended range for my height) and were more frequent when I wore something new and tighter fitting. They were also more common from people who hadn't seen me in a while - it's tougher to see a gradual weight loss I think, which may be why people you see regularly don't comment on it.



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I think after a 20 lb weight loss.

Deep down you know exactly what you’re capable of. There’s even moments where you get a glimpse of all the potential you have. You can get there. You must be willing to sacrifice the habits, the things, the situations that are standing in the way of your success. Never Stop!


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Never, I hope I hate any extra attention. Let's pretend I am not nor ever was fat.

On my way to my new normal.


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Sometimes people notice and don't know what to say. If they say, "hey you look great!" that implies you didn't look great before.

I don't like to comment on people's weight unless I know they've been trying to lose weight. So, if I were a co-worker and you hadn't told me you were trying to lose, I don't know that I'd say anything.



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People sometimes notice long before they mention it. I tend to avoid discussing anyone's weight loss unless they bring it up. Congratulations on your weight loss.

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7/19/17 5:07 P

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when we wear clothes that fit.



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When we quit wearing the baggy clothes we have used for years to hide it well



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From past experience, it is usually after about 20 pounds



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6/24/17 12:14 P

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After 50 lbs.

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Funny that just last night someone said something after I passed on some chips that were being passed around. Someone asked why was I letting the chips go by, knowing I love them, & I figured it was a good time to brag a little about my 28 lb loss.
When I said that, the spouse said she had noticed but since we are not exactly spring chickens, she didn't want to say anything since she has said something to people in the past only to find they are sick & the loss is not intentional.

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I lost 20 pounds a couple of years ago, and then maintained for about six months. No joke, that's when people at work started noticing! After six months of maintenance!

Funny story, I had a friend who just constantly insisted I had lost weight when I hadn't. It was just so weird to me. I hadn't changed anything. I didn't see her for a while while I was losing weight, so when I saw her next, I thought for SURE she'd comment on my actual weight loss. Nope!

Aside from all this, I once saw a speaker in college who talked about her bulimia, and said that what kept her going with it was people telling her how thin she looked. I also heard of someone get complimented on losing a lot of weight.. because of cancer. After that, I rarely comment on people's weight loss, even when I notice (and I'm the type of person who doesn't really notice to start), UNLESS I know that they are losing weight in a healthy way, for healthy reasons. If you want people to say something, maybe bait them, just a little, with something about going to the gym or eating vegetables or whatever. Then maybe you'll get, "You know, I DID think you looked thinner!" But people are weird, and you never know!

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I found we had done such a great job at hiding it with our different clothes that when it started coming off a lot more then thought had to to lost. My guess for me was about 30 lbs as I hid 20 lbs really good with baggy clothes.



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Congrats to you and your wife, Jef19541! Perhaps the people who aren't noticing your weight loss are the ones who never noticed you were overweight in the first place!



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Have lost 26lbs the past couple of months and can really feel the difference in more ways than one. I think it's strange that nobody seems to notice except for a very few.
You would think when you lose 10% of your body weight more people would notice.
It's a team effort at our house with my wife losing 16lbs in the same amount of time and she says absolutely no one at work has commented on it.

We are trying a permanent change in our diet & eating habits for ourselves, but it would still be a boost if others took note sometimes.

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