I just posted this as a blog post, but please forgive the copy and paste and allow me to introduce myself:
My name is Frank. I was born in Queens, NY, but only lived there about six weeks. I was raised in Alabama and Tennessee (Go Vols!).
I currently reside in Wichita, KS with my wife and 8-year-old daughter. I own a small business blending, packaging and selling (online) specialty organic flavored iced teas. I am about 160lbs overweight, and I have been obese most of my life. I really want to lose some weight and get more flexible so I can do more things with my daughter and live to see more of what she does with her life.
I'm a literature nerd. I love short fiction, poetry, philosophy. I'm also VERY liberal-minded politically.
I am pro-choice but anti-abortion (I think abortion is rarely the best option, but I believe women have the right to decide for themselves and should have access to a safe procedure; I believe that is a much better solution than outlawing it and creating a situation where young women are endangering their lives dealing with pseudo-medical professionals or worse).
I am also pro-cannabis legalization. I have traveled to Denver and tried cannabis, and all I can say is that it works miracles on my PTSD and anxiety symptoms, and I really hope the end of prohibition comes soon.
I am an ally of the LGBTQ community, #blacklivesmatter, and a number of other marginalized groups. I support Bernie Sanders and I voted for President Obama twice. I believe our government is quickly becoming an oligarchy, if it hasn't already, and that it's up to the common people to stand up and put an end to it.
I am an atheist-with-a-small-question-
mark, but I don't hate Christians (I don't hate anyone for their particular flavor of religious beliefs), but I can't stand bigotry. I don't believe all religious people are bigots, and I happen to have some religious friends who exemplify this.
I am also polyamorous, which has been a great comfort to me as I go through this recent emotional crisis. I've been very grateful to have a small circle of intimate friends and lovers that I can lean on a little bit each and not be an overwhelming burden to any one person.
And, yes, I am going through a bit of an emotional crisis lately as I start taking my first steps towards living a live without anxiety. I have a new therapist who is helping me deal with my PTSD and anxiety issues, and part of the way I am dealing with things is to stop pretending to be someone that I'm not. So, if you are asking why I, as a small business owner, would tell you about my business and then tell you about all of these potentially divisive ideologies I hold dear, it's because A) it might be a little crazy; and B) this is how I'm dealing with my crazy right now, and if I lose some customers and alienate some people around me but manage to save my soul, it will be worth it to me.
THANKS for reading.