surgery over - not what I was hoping for - I am now bedridden for 5 days - then up to shower and take off huge covering - back to doing nothing and then post surgery check next Friday - It seems that there really is a great deal going on in that hip - and another larger surgery is a possibility - I guess time will tell - there is an indication of dying bones and the flaking bone chunks were in the joint - also had a cartilage tear that was repaired and tons of fluid washed out- Once again after giving detailed info on how I do not wake up like expected - they promised that I would have something very light and would open my eyes in the surgical room and be able to speak with the doctor - sure - I was out for hours - the doctor had done tons more surgeries - my daughter kept asking - but I did wake up finally and the doctor did come back to say a few things that I was hoping not to hear - so keep those prayers coming - I really would love this to be the only surgery -
My youngest DD is doing a great job taking care of me - My oldest DD took off work and stayed all day until I was ready to go home -my son took a little break from work to call and check - I think my dogs and cats are having breakdowns since none of them are allowed in my room or near my since I cannot have my leg jarred at all - My little Sasha keeps shaking -
NY - question - how is the wig -You are really being so positive about it all - good for you - I have lost so much hair that I have thought of getting one - but so many look so fake but they are also cheap - does your wig have a part that looks real? I actually went on line after your post to look up human hair wigs - some pictures looked great - others not so much - or did you go to a store and try them on??
Shekirk - that second guessing about decisions is enough to make one enter an asylum - Have you heard from him??? I am reading a book - It is a religious book but I am not taking it that way at all - it is called MESSY- A mom of one of my piano students left the book and magazines at the door this morning so I had something to do in bed - This book which does not come from my personal religious views is really good in helping me see the messy life and how it really is filled with painful choices and unresolved regrets - YET - it also is good and funny at pointing out "messages of hope, messages of beauty, and safe passages of peace" - we can still give meaning to this messy life - trust in each other and hope etc - I am only on p 54 but for some reason it has pulled me in - oddly enough I also am looking at it another way - that my house that I keep tidy to a phobic level will no longer be that way -and I better get used to it- so perhaps this all ties in together with what we are going through -
I also know that I have gained a ton and will not do much better as I am being served meals in bed that DD is putting together to please hubby and those are not on the list for me - but I am so grateful for the help - who knows since the portions are small and I can't get up to snack- maybe I will stay level - but I agree lets move on to falling away in fall -
KAYWEB - keep it going !!!
AJ - glad the party went well -
GRAND - so silly not being able to sit - I give up at times on the public sector of education -
remember that song from the Jeffersons - moven on up to the eastside - maybe we can have one about Moven on down to the this side or something????
co-leader Boston Terrier Lovers
My youngest DD is doing a great job taking care of me - My oldest DD took off work and stayed all day until I was ready to go home -my son took a little break from work to call and check - I think my dogs and cats are having breakdowns since none of them are allowed in my room or near my since I cannot have my leg jarred at all - My little Sasha keeps shaking -
NY - question - how is the wig -You are really being so positive about it all - good for you - I have lost so much hair that I have thought of getting one - but so many look so fake but they are also cheap - does your wig have a part that looks real? I actually went on line after your post to look up human hair wigs - some pictures looked great - others not so much - or did you go to a store and try them on??
Shekirk - that second guessing about decisions is enough to make one enter an asylum - Have you heard from him??? I am reading a book - It is a religious book but I am not taking it that way at all - it is called MESSY- A mom of one of my piano students left the book and magazines at the door this morning so I had something to do in bed - This book which does not come from my personal religious views is really good in helping me see the messy life and how it really is filled with painful choices and unresolved regrets - YET - it also is good and funny at pointing out "messages of hope, messages of beauty, and safe passages of peace" - we can still give meaning to this messy life - trust in each other and hope etc - I am only on p 54 but for some reason it has pulled me in - oddly enough I also am looking at it another way - that my house that I keep tidy to a phobic level will no longer be that way -and I better get used to it- so perhaps this all ties in together with what we are going through -
I also know that I have gained a ton and will not do much better as I am being served meals in bed that DD is putting together to please hubby and those are not on the list for me - but I am so grateful for the help - who knows since the portions are small and I can't get up to snack- maybe I will stay level - but I agree lets move on to falling away in fall -
KAYWEB - keep it going !!!
AJ - glad the party went well -
GRAND - so silly not being able to sit - I give up at times on the public sector of education -
remember that song from the Jeffersons - moven on up to the eastside - maybe we can have one about Moven on down to the this side or something????
co-leader Boston Terrier Lovers
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