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1/15/14 5:42 P

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Oh right. Now I know why I forgot.

I think it depends on the couple involved, and all the physical factors that go along with her cycle. To be a bit graphic: if her flow is very heavy, or she has lots of cramping, bloating, constipation or any of that other fun stuff, then she's not likely to be in the mood for any sexual action, but would appreciate a shoulder massage and a lot of cuddling or something like that. If she doesn't have such a miserable time of it, then it really depends on whether the idea gives her the creeps or not.

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TRINITYROYAL's Photo TRINITYROYAL Posts: 2,406
1/15/14 5:40 P

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About the compliments -- I think it's iffy. A lot depends on delivery, but I find compliments on my appearance that are too specific (from anyone other than my husband) to be a bit off-putting. "You look lovely today." is fine. "Those black stilettos you're wearing are giving me a hard-on" is going WAY too far. Somewhere in the middle, but closer to the "you look lovely" side of the spectrum is probably okay. But then again, I'm a bit of a stick-in-the-mud.

About the gaming -- That question is a distractor. The real question is: Does your girlfriend feel neglected or not. Have you been spending enough time and attention on her in other ways that she's feeling secure in your love for her? If yes, then go ahead and game. If not, then you're likely in the dog house.

What was the other thing? I forgot...

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1/10/14 2:54 P

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I agree...plus..
do I know either guy? Handsome or creepy? that can change my response as well, if I know Mr. Creepy and I know he's a jerk nothing he says will change my opinion but if he's cool I enjoy a compliment. Ditto for Mr. Handsome.

I may not be there yet but I'm closer than I was yesterday.

I got tired of starting over and working back to where I was, so I have stopped giving up!

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1/10/14 2:26 P

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Depends on the compliment, how it's phrased, tone of voice and body language...Those things turn a handsome guy into creepy guy...lol

"Those that care don't matter, those that matter don't care." -unknown author



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CD5092690 Posts: 15,787
1/10/14 2:20 P

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Compliments from good looking studs or plain old handsome men vs compliments from "creepy" guys; how do you feel about this?


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1/2/14 12:02 P

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Depends how you compliment...if you say "those shoes make me want to bang you" and stare creepily, then that'd be a big NO..lol If you kind of lightly say "awesome shoes" and smile while looking at her eyes, then you're probably safe.

TOM is different for every woman. Some will still have sex, some not, also depends how heavy it is or if cramps are really bad. If your woman isn't saying it's complete taboo at that TOM, then you're not necessarily SOL.

What is SHE doing those Saturday nights? Is she sitting home bored without you? Is she going out with friends too? Do you spend Friday nights together? Also depends how she said "ok"...lol When in doubt, go with your gut...do you *think* you might be in the doghouse? When in doubt, you probably are..lol

"Those that care don't matter, those that matter don't care." -unknown author



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12/29/13 12:20 P

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TOM=time of month aka "ladies day"
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12/28/13 10:50 A

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Any compliment is good! Dont push the games , take a 1 week break for her time now and then. Explain TOM then I can answer that. SOL I know way too much about!

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12/18/13 10:31 A

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SOL = Shxt Out of Luck

Card gaming! (non-video)
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12/17/13 2:47 A

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1 - yeah, some wedge shoes are kinda sexy cool

2 - not sure what SOL means so can't help there

3. - 5 weeks in a row. Is game on like playstation? If so, then hmmm, ummm not really a great sign lol

Smile .... it makes people wonder what you're up to ;-)

It is far easier to MAKE time to exercise than it is to FIND time to exercise. You want results???? MAKE it happen.

Keep trying - you CAN do it - believe in yourself!


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11/27/13 3:06 P

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LOL sure

I may not be there yet but I'm closer than I was yesterday.

I got tired of starting over and working back to where I was, so I have stopped giving up!

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CD5092690 Posts: 15,787
11/27/13 2:23 P

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without feeling like an idiot."

Can one of you ladies start a thread with this title so that we he-men can ask questions for ladies to answer like:
~Is it too creepy if a guy compliments a woman on her slutty open toe black suede wedges?
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~Does TOM really mean SOL for us?
or
~Does a reply from my girlfriend of "ok" to me asking her if I can game on yet another Saturday night (5th week in a row) really mean "OK" or is it a trap?

Any takers?
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