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6/28/09 6:20 P

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My skinny fantasy is to have the love of my life look at me on one of those rare days that I feel extra beautiful and not wonder what he sees....not wonder if I'm misreading the look in his eyes because of how I'm feeling or if he really does see me as beautiful as I feel...

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I want to do a one-nite show...of me stripping...

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1. To get married
2. To be less shy and more confident
3. To have less hard time shopping for clothes


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There were so many wonderful options listed here. I have some things to list as well. (Some are vain, sorry)

1) I want to lose weight so I can be an inspiration to my students. They rarely get to see someone work hard to achieve a goal. They always tell me that I am great at English and that is why I understand it. I want to look at them and tell them that they are great at being healthy and I am not but I worked at it and was successful.
2) I want to walk in the mall and hear people whispering behind my back because they think I look nice. Not because they are commenting on the size of my rear end.
3) I want to donate all of my plus-sized clothes to a woman's shelter.
4) I want to go out to eat and order a normal portion of food and not have people say, "You should have ordered a salad."
5) I want to be able to sit in any theater or auditorium comfortably so I don't miss my student's performances, graduations, etc.
6) I want to fly to Europe, fit in the seat, AND have the Europeans think that not all American's are fat.
7) I want my clothes to look nicer on me, (not wrinkled, rumply, or crinkled because of my weight.)
8) I want to stand in a picture without automatically moving to the back.
9) I want my cycle to regulate itself.
10) I want to go downstairs to my pool and get out without putting a coverup on first.

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6/25/09 9:22 P

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Oh wow...oh so many of them!

#1 - To actually allow my picture to be taken, especially since I have my son now...three months old & not a single picture of him & I together

#2 - To actually enjoy getting dressed

#3 - To be able to try on 30 different things and have at least half of them actually look good on me

#4 - To be able to put on a bathing suit and not feel like everyone is staring at me (in the not good way)

#5 - To be able to enjoy sex without being ever-conscious of the lights, my size, etc.


And that's just a few!!

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Well lets see, I'm looking forward to EVERYTHING! haha but here's a few major things:

-Crossing my legs
-Going to a waterpark
-Wearing a bathing suit (thats not shorts and a tank top!)
-Shopping at non plus size stores
-Wearing high heels
-Being more outgoing
-Getting pregnant
-Look GOOD in lingerie

And most of all, finding out who I TRUELY am underneath all this fat!!!


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4/30/09 5:40 P

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Mine is simple. When my husband tells me how gorgeous, hot, sexy, or beautiful i am, I want to be able to believe it.

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My skinny fantasies! Oh My!

1- I want to go into a party or room and everyone look at me and contemplate how hot I am (like back in the days).

2- I want to stop being lazy and have amazing sex with my husband again (not that we dont but Ive become so freaking lazy because i cant hold my own weight!!!)

3 - Shop at the Normal stores again!!! And use even smaller sizes then when I used to shop there.

4 - Stop being the pretty FAT wife when we hang out with our friends (they all have hot skinny wifes/gf!)

5 - Be able to keep up with my 1 year old son!

6 - Be super healthy, sexy and beautiful!!!!

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4/30/09 11:52 A

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Skinny Fantasy...There are so many things I fantasize about doing, if only I was skinny.

#1 I want to take dancing classes, like sexy dancing. I love to dance but who wants to see a fat lady on a pole????

#2 I want to be able to look sexy in jeans and a little shirt or shorts and a tank top.

#3 My son is 2 and in a few years I would like to take him to an amusement park and ride the rides with him, not wait at the end for him to get off.

#4 Shopping...oooohhh how I want to go shopping!!!!

#5 I want to make those who rejected me in the past regret it and I want my husband to be able to say..."THAT IS MY WIFE!!"

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4/30/09 2:39 A

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God Post Idea!

My Skinny Fantasy Ideas are:
1. Fit into my first EVER bikini - i have stretch marks from my rapid weight gain - but i will not let that stop me - even if that means getting spray tans or laser treatment to lighten/fade them.
2. To turn heads when I walk into a room
3. To be asked out on a date by a stranger. I can't believe that I am 22 years old and have never been asked on a date. It makes me sad, but know that I am at a turning point in my life
4. To not have to tilt the camera in a way that makes my face look skinny
5. To not be called "the pretty girl too bad she's overweight".
6. No more back fat!
7. To parade around in something strapless, short, sexy and form fitting
8. To see no more double chins in photos
9. To know when i walk into a store I am not worried that the XL won't fit me, I want to know that there is a size up for me to go. To know that something in a store can be to big not always too small
10. To ask the salesperson - i'm sorry but do you carry this in a size 4, this is too BIG on me!


Edited by: GETGORGEOUS09 at: 4/30/2009 (02:41)
One step at a time...


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4/29/09 9:54 A

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I want to be able to trade clothes with friends.
Not outweigh my husband.
To be looked at the way I used to be...this isn't said the way I mean but I am not sure how to say it so I hope you just get it.
I want to be able to buy cheap clothes that still look good.
I would like to look my age (27) or younger..
I want to take my 11 yr old to an amusement park and play with him.
I would love to feel comfortable on the beach.
I would like to feel comfortable taking pictures again..not just comfortable. I would like to see a picture of me and think I am beautiful.
I would like to not worry so much about my health and just know that I am healthy.

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4/29/09 7:17 A

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I agreed with so many of these!

Alright, here's the "list", but of course I notice I add more to it all the time.

1. Shop in a normal store again.

2. Walk into a place and actually have a guy check me out again. It's been so long.

3. Not outweigh my fiancée by 92 lbs. That is very embarrassing.

4. Not be afraid to try anything or go anywhere because I don't know if they'll be any fat related issues when I get there.

5. I don't want to have to shop plus size for a wedding dress.

6. Not have a minor heart attack anytime someone pulls out a camera.

7. I want to be the hot wife, not the fat wife.

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4/29/09 4:25 A

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Most of mine people have already said but I'll go ahead and do my top ten anyway (in no particular order)...

1. Be able to wear a bikini to the beach/pool parties with friends.

2. To go to amusement parks without worrying I won't fit the ride.

3. To do different types of exercise I can't or don't feel comfortable doing now. Ex. horseback riding again, dancing lessons, boxing lessons, running a marathon/triathlon etc

4. To get married and be a beautiful bride.

5. To have kids one day and be able to tell I'm pregnant! haha

6. To see people I haven't in a long time and have them think, "My God she's beautiful!"

7. To fit in "normal" sizes so I don't have to go with my friends shopping and walk around and look at all the clothes I can't wear.

8. To be more confident and less shy around people. I want to be able to strike up a random conversation with the hottie at the bar without having a panic attack. haha

9. I want my boyfriend to be able to show me off! I know he loves me the way I am now but I'll feel so much sexier once I lose the weight.

10. To walk in a room and be the hottest girl there!

Ok I guess that's enough for now. =D

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4/28/09 9:45 P

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I want to go clothes shopping with all my thin friends, and not just stare longingly at the racks, and be able to be in the fitting room beside them, not on the couch outside!

"Everybody says that a girl who looks like me can't win his love so just wait and see!"


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I want to have the trendy clothes look as good on me as they do the models in the store.

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4/28/09 5:22 P

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My biggest "skinny" fantasy is to just be able to walk around in public, doing anything, and not think about my weight and what I might look like to people because of it.

More specifically, I'd like to be able to shop at a thrift store and get attractive, cool clothes. There really isn't anything desirable or fun at the 20/22 end.

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4/28/09 4:07 P

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My skinny fantasies are:

*To not have to pay an extra $2 for t-shirts because of the size.

*To be able to learn some Parkour

*To be comfortable enough to take my shirt off when I'm swimming.

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4/28/09 2:31 P

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I would like to be able to go into the regular size stores and buy a dress/skirt and not worry about my legs rubbing together and feel comfortable...(have not wore a dress/skirt in over 4yrs)



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4/28/09 1:14 P

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#1 To not be embarrassed or ashamed at mommy and me swim class.
#2 Look great in wedding gown and be able to wear something sexy underneath and feel good in it.
#3 To wear a sexy bikini.

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Even though I've been married for 2 years, I want my husband to be able to "carry me over the threshold." I want my husband to be able to pick me up, and I want to be able to sit on his lap without squishing him. :)

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I'm not going for 'skinny' as much as I am lean. I'm a big guy, and I always will be, regardless of my % BodyFat. As for my 'dreams' regarding being lean-I want to have my girlfriend refer to me as 'hot' again. I want to be able to keep up with the pack on CrossFit, doing WOD's as RX'ed and putting up competitive scores. I want to pass my PST and get in good enough shape to get selected for training.

Somewhere between 75 and 115# to go.

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I have quite a few skinny fantasies

1) To be able to shop at a regular store with friends and shop not be the person who holds the bags and comments on how good they look in their size 6 jeans.

2) To be able to be more confidante if I am at a bar or party , so I am not the weird nerd who ppl talk to because it is rude not to

3) Be able to run around and play with my niece and nephew with out saying "Auntie has to take a break now

4) To be able to put on a bathing suit ( tankini or one piece , no bikini's for me too many stretch marks from being overweight) and feel confidant in my self and that I look good

5) Be able to finally have a boyfriend who wants to do things with me that doesn't want to just hang out and watch movies because I cant keep up ( this is why one of my ex's is an ex)

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My skinny fantasies are:

1) To wear a tanktop and swimming trunks and not feel embarrassed.

2) To be cast as the male romantic lead in a show.

3) To look in the mirror and feel good about what I see.

4) To have a woman try to check me out.

Ok, I know that last one's a little weird, but it would be nice to not be considered the geeky but sexually harmless type for once.

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I agree with all of you!! I think my number one skinny fantasy is to shop in the regular size stores not just plus size stores and be comfortable shopping with my skinny friends instead of standing around WISHING I could fit into those clothes.
My second fantasy is being able to go to Victoria Secret and pick out some sexy lingerie to surprise my fiancee with!!
My third- To be able to go on a roller coaster again or ride an airplane without feeling squished!

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my skinny fantasy is to go shopping with my freinds and being able to keep up and try clothes on with them! I've always evnied the styles they can wear...

and another is to be able to ride any ride at the amusment park. Right now at 400+ I'm too worried that I won't fit or that something will go wrong. And I guess that goes for airlines too. I haven't been on a long distance vacation in years now because of it.

and of course, flirting. I flirt all the time, but I guess as a skinny fantasy, I would assume flirting might actually lead to something......

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I agree with all of you! I definitely want to be able to walk into any store and buy clothes, esp victoria's secret. I want to be able to walk on the beach or in a club and not feel self conscious!

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Great ones Bonnie!

I would love to be able to take lots of pictures of myself, full body ones, hanging out and having fun with people AND feel comfortable enough to post them on facebook, etc. for everyone to see!

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my skinny fantasies:

1. to be able to wear: a miniskirt!, skinny jeans, a bikini, shorts/tank top.

2. to show those idiots who turned me down when I was fat- what they'd be missing out on. there is one in particular. (this one I'm trying not to focus on too much since I don't want it to be the main reason why I get skinny- that only leads to negativity & failure)

3. to finally have enough confidence to approach guys- have my first boyfriend & first kiss... I hate being 20 and not having experienced any of that! :( it saddens me. and half of the time it has to do with my confidence level.

4. to be small enough to have a baby after I get married, hopefully in the next 5 to 8 years.

5. once I get to my goal weight, take classes and become a personal trainer. that way I can help others with weight problems and keep my weight off at the same time.

(edit note: added number 5)

Edited by: BONNIEMAC588 at: 4/9/2009 (19:14)
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I so relate to all of these answers. My husband is big too and hurts from old sports injuries, our sex life is non-existent. I would like to be able to walk in a normal store and buy clothes, go shopping with friends, wear shorts again, fit into an airplane seat and a stadium seat. Which reminds me, I went to a college basketball game this year. We ended up sitting on concrete because even though my husband was uncomfortable in his seat, my weight plus hip width make it downright painful for me to sit in my seat. We almost didn't stay and now I will not attend anything in a stadium which leaves out a lot of fun activities!

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Wow it's so amazing how similar we all are! Just when you think you're alone and the only one who fantasizes about this stuff, you see that's just not the case!

Thanks for sharing these ladies.

Another skinny fantasy of mine is to travel somewhere where it's really hot and be comfortable in skimpy clothes and bathing suits and be able to enjoy the trip without feeling like a big fat over-heated blimp with a headache. LOL

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My skinny fantasy is to have my fiance be able to dip me during our wedding dance, actually carry me over the threshold, and of course, ahem, to have all the married bliss be way easier and fun! I desperatly want to try on skimpy outfits and lingerie to wear and have fun. I don't feel so confident about myself now, but I'm hoping after maybe another 50, I'll start feeling sexy. We'll see!

Oooo, I also can't wait for the moment when I've lost over 100 pounds and I see people I haven't seen in a long time....and they freak. :) These little moments add up in life and just keep us motivated! Fun post!

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oh, and another thing... I want to go to the bar with my girls, and be able to flirt with the boys!! They always talk to my girls but soon it will be me!

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I would have to say... just being comfortable in my own skin. Wearing shorts or skirts! And Most of all... I want to wear a binkini again!!

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My first thought on seeing this topic was, "My fantasy is to sit on my husbands lap without feeling like I am going to smoosh him!" But now that I look at all of yours I totally feel the same way! But mine for sure is the sitting on my husbands lap because I always think it's nice when I see couples doing that.

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My "skinny" fantasy is to feel like a gorgeous bride on the day I get married and underneath my white dress have a sexy black garter belt to surprise my hubby with.

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I think my Skinny Fantasy would be (sexual things aside ;]) to be able to walk to the dressing room without having to fold the clothes I want to try on so they look smaller.

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As for my "skinny fantasy"---I want to do something with pro. wrestling. I'd love to get in shape enough to try-out to get training to become a pro. wrestler, but I'd want to at least go to Orlando and see TNA live there.

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it wasn't the "secure and sexual" part that was a problem--it was the "my tummy's in the way"...lol--but both Hubby and I have lost some weight, so now it's not so much an issue of trying to breath anymore--which definitely makes it more fun.

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4/5/09 9:20 P

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I want to be able to shop at victoria's secret and look wonderful wearing it. I would love to get all dressed up for my hubby and go out somewhere and suprise the crap out of him when we got home!

~~Christina~~

"Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile."
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4/5/09 12:32 P

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Mommy_t - y'know I never had an issue whether it was 35 pounds ago or not. I was always secure and sexual no matter what. But when I hit closer to my goal weight I want to go nuts and go victoria secret shopping and get tons of lingerie :)

~*~ KRYSTAL ~*~
"Nothing in this life worth having comes easy"


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CD4340045 Posts: 2,047
4/3/09 5:46 P

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Haha... losing weight is definitely something I want to do to improve my sex life with my husband LOL



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4/3/09 12:13 A

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If you're looking for just a "perk", then about 30 lbs. should do the trick...I've already noticed it's a bit easier without so much weight.

~MT~
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Zahari Skyhorn, Elite Ranger Half-Elf, Corinthium

Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.  ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

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4/2/09 11:47 P

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Hehe can it be something sexual? LOL, I mean honestly who here hasn't though about how it could perk up their sex life married or not?
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~*~ KRYSTAL ~*~
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I have quite a few:
*to be able to shop with my skinny friends and not go to the plus size section
*to walk into the room and be the HOTTEST chick there
*to wear a two piece bathing suit (even if its just and tankini) and not be embarassed
*to wear sexy colors like pink and melon and not look like a picnic table or blimp
*to turn heads wherever I go
*to be able to ride rollercoasters again (i'm too scared to try now)
*to be able to run around with my kids and not be out of breath
*to wear a pair of sexy heels and nothing else and look HOT!!! ***wink wink***

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4/1/09 6:31 P

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My skinny fantasy:

To go shopping and be in the dressing room and say "Excuse me, these jeans are too big, could you please bring me a size six?"

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Oooh I love these... and relate to them all lol

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I have a few skinny fantasies--

1)-- to have a baby...... I am to "big" to have a baby......
2) to not be self-concious when i put on clothes that do not cover my entire body (Ie. tank tops, shorts, skirts)
3) to be able to ride rollercoasters with my family.
4) to shop in a "normal" section of a "normal" store.


for now,
Jenn


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~~~~Rather than aiming for being perfect, just aim to be a little bit better today than you were yesterday~~~~
~~I may not be running the fastest, or running the furthest, but I am running~~Kristin


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My skinny fantasy is to not be the "fat" friend I have always been that and I would like to shop at the same store as my friends.

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4/1/09 6:42 A

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I am excited for the day when I can put on a little cute tank top and a pair of shorts and feel great!!

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"All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible."
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4/1/09 1:20 A

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I'm sure all of us out there have a fantasy or dream of something we will get to experience for the first time or do again when we reach our goals.

Maybe it's saying "Look at me Now!" to an old flame or being able to run around the park with your kids.

One of my skinny fantasies is being able to go out with the girls for a night on the town and party and flirt as a thin person!

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