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5/18/12 11:23 P

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My biggest skinny fantasy? To conquer airplane seats. So I can travel all the places I want to see, without feeling like I need to apologize to the person sitting next to me.

My other dream is to shop in the "regular" sizes. When I was younger, I didn't care about fashion, since my mom heavily regulated what I could wear, so there weren't a lot of options, just jeans and t-shirts. Now that I can actually have some fun with clothes, I want to have FUN with clothes, not just the ones in the plus-size section!

Oh, and to not have guys see me as "the fat chick" would be pretty great too emoticon

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5/15/12 3:18 P

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Wow i would have a lot and many the same as ya'll

Most of all I want my husband to be able to pick my up like they do when they carry you over the thresh hold
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3/6/12 3:20 P

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I have so many like the rest of you. Here are a few:

i want to look good on my motorcycle, or ride with my husband without ppl thinking "how can he ride with that?"
Dress in cute clothes. Jeans that dont look frumpy. Cute heels that don't hurt my feet. Go to amusement parks and not have anxiety i wont fit. Fit in booths when we go out. Go to my HS reunion and turn heads for the right reasons. Be able to ride a horse again.

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2/27/12 2:13 A

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You know that cute little pink poka dot dress the tmobile girl wears. That dress on me looking that good.

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2/22/12 9:00 A

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Some of my skinny dreams!!

Be able to go into any store and buy clothing.
Run a half marathon
Bike COMFORTABLY for several miles
Feel as good as my husband thinks i look
Get into more poses in Yoga
And this one is a little...maybe too revealing for some (and i apologize), but i want to feel comfortable when I'm naked around my husband.

Be the change you wish to see in the world.


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2/19/12 9:57 P

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Ooh this is fun to think about. So many!

-to ride roller coasters again and not fear that I won't fit in it.
-to cross my legs easily and look normal doing it!
-to shop in trendy mall stores like Forever 21 and look like I should be in there.
-to wear boots and be able to zip them up!
-to wear sleeveless tops, skirts, and shorts and not be self conscious about it.
-to wear a bikini! I haven't been in a bathing suit and years and NEVER in a bikini!
-to be able to wrap a normal bath towel all the way around me and not a huge bath blanket!
-to sit in a chair with my knees to my chest
-to be the fit strong girl in the gym that others look to for inspiration
-to wear cute gym clothes instead of baggy tshirts and pants
-to have cute skinny feet that look cute in strappy heels :-)

Oh my gosh, there are so many! Definitely gonna have to add this to my spark page and update it when others come to mind. It'll be fun to look back at when I'm actually able to do this stuff!

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2/19/12 2:34 P

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emoticon we'll get there Sammi. Gotta keep truckin

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Jamaican born and raised!!!

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Learning to love myself and keep it together.
Peace and Blessings.
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2/19/12 2:18 P

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At Charissunny: I know how you feel. I want a baby so badly someday. I know dropping this weight is the only way I can be a mommy. I feel like I'll die from a broken heart if I can't.

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2/19/12 2:04 P

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I have a few off the top of my head :

- A BELLY RING!!!!! I know its a skinny chick thing so I want to claim it as mine lol

- I live on an island and i love the water so naturally I wanna tame the jiggles and bikini to my hearts content

- a "baby t". I have tonnes of regular T shirts but none of the cute little baby T types

Now these are all appearance based and thats not all Im about but theyd be nice. Beyond that I want to RUN!!!! I have never gone jogging or ran anywhere. I want to be fit enough to run!!

Lastly and I cant even type this without feeling brokenhearted, I want babies. I have to be a mommy and I cant let my weight and health prevent that.I want my babies.



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2/17/12 3:49 P

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My skinny fantasy is to get a fabulous job as a stylist after school. Just because I'm good at something doesn't mean they won't judge me because I'm not thin. I want to go shopping and not feel like a loser while my friends try on all these cute clothes, and I'm stuck in the "plus sizes" with really slim pickings. Its impossible to find decent fitting pants, I'm such an awkward size AND short. I can't wait to be able to pick out a normal pair of jeans, not kill myself putting them on, and saving my circulation! I'm saving money for when this weight is gone. I am going to buy all new clothes, shoes, makeup, you name it. I'm gonna go pamper myself at the spa, get my hair done, be a new person. I want to prove myself and all the other doubters that there's beauty in all of us. Sometimes it just takes time to feel it.

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2/15/12 6:57 A

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A few Skinny fantasies:

-Being able to shop for normal shoes too (and I thought I'm the only one whose feet grew bigger as I got bigger)
-Enjoying shopping and not resenting it because I actually do love it (and I haven't set foot in a fitting room in years, I just assume something will fit and take it home)
-Wearing shorts (not tiny hot pants), regular shorts and look good and feel comfortable in them
-Pick up anything in my wardrobe without fearing that it won't fit or look good
-My biggest skinny fantasy is going to lingerie store and shop to my heart's content and get my size that looks good even when I'm holding it... not large like I tent


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2/13/12 6:45 P

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I totally agree with you, Babbina! I would absolutely love to be able to wear any shoes I want without my feet screaming for mercy.

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2/13/12 3:24 P

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My skinny fantasy may sound a bit strange to you, but I just want more overall freedom in the range, capability & movement of my body.

Here's one: I want to be able to actually cross my legs & look cute doing it lol Sigh and another... I want to be able to walk into ANY show store & be able to try on almost ANYTHING, including HEELS, OMG. My feet were so huge that I couldn't even get into the wide widths, I had to stroll over to the men's side & buy from there. And you know if the shoes ain't right, then outfit ain't complete lol Oh & I wanna actually wear a bikini too, just for once in my life! lol

And I want to actually be able to take up just one seat when I'm on the bus or train, and ride more comfortably in my car. I want to be light on my feet, breathe easier & be those athletic people u see out there actively maintaining their healthy lifestyle. I wanna be that person that has little to no health problems for the rest of my life & age beautifully.

Last but not least, I want to lead by example & to my daughter & inspire her to live a healthy lifestyle when she grows into a beautiful young lady.

Honestly, this question really got my thinking seriously abt any skinny fantasies I may have b/c up until I began my Wl Journey, I've never ever visualized or imagined what it was like to be skinny. I was always that fat girl for as long as I could remember. So really, I can't say much more than that b/c I've never been on thin, or even avg body size, so I have no clue how its on that size, but I'm on my way to finding out 1 lb @ a time! emoticon emoticon

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2/10/12 7:33 P

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-I would love to safely and healthily have children and be an adorably pregnant woman.
-I would love to be able to enjoy shopping for clothes instead of crying in the fitting rooms.
-I would love to take a bubble bath and be comfortable doing it. It would be a plus if I could do it with my special someone.
-I would love to be able to comfortably lay on my stomach. I miss the way that feels.
-I would love to learn ballroom dancing, be comfortable doing it and be good at it.

These are just some. They are really nice to think about. :-)

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2/10/12 9:00 A

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My Skinny Fantasy:

To walk up a flight of stairs without being winded.

To go into any clothing store and be able to buy something off the rack, and not have to go to the "Plus Size" section to find something.

To actually feel sexy and attractive like my husband thinks I am.

To not be the "fat one" in the family. (Currently I am the heaviest)

To feel healthy

To be able to keep up with my two little boys and not say "no mommy doesn't have the energy to do that"

To go on an airplane trip and not have to worry that they will have me buy a second ticket for myself.


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2/8/12 9:30 A

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My "Skinny Fantasties" - Hmmm so many to list:

I would like to be able to go in ANY store i like and buy anything i want, i'd like to know that when i go up to the clothes rack/shelf the only reason they don't have my size is because they have sold out - not because they dont actually stock my size!

I would like to not be the "fat friend" amongst my circle of friends. Its embarrassing. It feels like when we go out i get pity looks from people... I dont get the look of "WOW shes stunning" - i want that...just once!

I want to have the confidence to go out in public, hold my head high and be me... i dont want to be the one who hides away in the corner to avoid stares and laughter...

This one may seem shallow - but I want people to look at me and think "i want to be like her" not "phew! glad i dont look like that".

Most of all i want to be happy with what i see in the mirror every morning/noon and night. I want to feel comfortable getting undressed in front of people. I want to have a figure that i am proud to show off and not one that i would prefer to hide under big baggy clothes!



If only it was as easy to get it off, as it was to put it on....


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CD11433539 Posts: 128
2/7/12 6:27 P

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I second the skydiving fantasy. That is something that I've always wanted to try.

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2/7/12 2:43 P

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I have a few "skinny" fantasies. When I first started by skinny fantasy was to be the size I was in high school (which was not that small at all) and also to be able to shop at Victoria's Secret.
I have completed these two fantasies which is nice but I still have a ways to go.
I would like to be able to see my belly-button without having to move my stomach fat up. I would also like to not have a "fat" day. I want to wake up and look in the mirror and just be happy with what I see :)

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2/7/12 1:22 P

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I have a few "skinny" fantasies:

1. Be able to shop at Victoria's Secret and buy sexy/cute lingerie.

2. Be able to wear short shorts and either a tube top or halter top and look cute

3. Be able to pull off one of those skimpy Halloween costumes

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2/4/12 10:05 P

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As of right now my skinny fantasy is to be able to go into a bridal shop and hear that i can pick from almost the whole store instead of altered plus sizes. I want to look and feel beautiful on my wedding day...


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2/4/12 3:12 P

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I want to be able to go skydiving. My sister's done it more than once and says it's awesome, but I know there's a weight limit, so I've never even gone to try because I don't want the awkwardness of them having to tell me that I'm way over it.

I want to look hot in good jeans and a white tank top or fitted sports jersey, not just frumpy.

I'd also like to be able to wear a belt buckle. That sounds so simple, but you just can't wear them in between two rolls of fat.

You can feel sore tomorrow or you can feel sorry tomorrow. You choose.

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2/4/12 11:12 A

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My ultimate skinny fantasy is to be able to stand naked in front of my husband and not feel like " OMG is he looking at my stomach"...

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2/3/12 8:49 P

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I would love to get a vintage dress and feel great in it!

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2/3/12 2:10 P

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I have a few "skinny" fantasies!! And most of them were already said. I want to be able to take pics of myself and put them on facebook, not just headshots. I want to be able to wear the cute clothes and feel good about it. I want to go back to those guys and say "look at me now" haha, and most of all, I want to have the energy to play with my kids. We go to the park and I just sit there! That has got to change. And I want to wear things from Victoria's Secret! Oh, and one more, I am tired of being the "big girl" when I go out with my friends, only invited out of pity! I want to be the first one they call!!!!!

Step by step, I will reach my goal, no matter what!


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2/2/12 1:00 P

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My "skinny" fantasy is to be able to fit into the jeans i used to wear in high school, to be able to shop for cute clothes at old navy, or walmart even, and i also want to look and feel sexy again.



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2/1/12 11:58 A

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My skinny fantasies:

Be able to cross my legs again!
Live without pain in my joints due to the excess weight!
Be able to look down and see my toes instead of a belly!
Not have a single fat roll or spare tire around my midsection!
Be able to run up a flight of stairs without losing my breath!
Be thin enough to go outside during the summer (i'm so big that i get overheated very easily, find it hard to breathe in the heat and i sweat up a storm drenching my clothes, so going out in 90+ degree weather isn't an option)

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1/27/12 9:43 A

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Of course like many of us Fluffy Chicks we all want the bikini and the normal stores but my ultimate skinny fantasy is:

To run into an ex or a enemy who used my weight to get to me and just flaunt how gorgeous I look. Invite them to a pool party and show them what they cant have! I also want to be able to go skydiving and Bungee Jumping.

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1/27/12 1:42 A

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I think this thread is amazing...I'd love to paste this all over my house to remind me.

My skinny fantasies:

-get fit enough, take horseback riding lessons, and become proficient in leisure riding and be awesome while doing so

-wear a bikini for the first time ever

-have a flat, not-roll-y tummy like (this is so embarrassing) the girls who are on the underwear labels

-buy a pair of skinny jeans. May not wear them, but I'd love to buy them.

-No longer feel like a whale out in public

-No longer be the "fat shy girl" - instead, I'll be the "skinny shy girl"

-wear the hottest outfit and flaunt to all those who thought I could never lose the weight

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1/23/12 6:35 P

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One of the main things I will do when I lose all my weight is go bikini shopping. x]

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1/18/12 9:42 P

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I can completely relate to so many of the "skinny fantasies" listed here.
Like many others, I'm looking forward to shopping in normal stores, to wearing a swimsuit on the beach, to buying cute clothes, and to feeling more confident.

But if I had to pick just one skinny fantasy, it would be this: I want to look glamorous and sophisticated stepping out of the back of a limousine instead of huffing and puffing from the effort required to hoist myself up out of my car.

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My skinny fantasy is to be able to walk around Victoria's Secret with my skinny friends and not be judged by the employees.

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1/7/12 7:41 A

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I have SO many of these!!

- Shop at a regular clothing store, and walk right past Lane Bryant, Torrid, and Avenue! (Not that I don't love those stores dearly, but I will be thanking the Lord when I don't have to shop there anymore!)
- Having a pair of jeans last more than a couple of months because of holes worn in them from my thighs rubbing together as I walk!
- No longer avoiding shoes that tie up just because tying them is such a pain in the butt.
- Being able to wrap my bath towel ALL THE WAY around me after getting out of the shower
- Going shopping for clothes without winding up in tears by the end of the day
- Sit cross-legged ("indian style") in a chair
- Go to my 10 year high school reunion and have people not even recognize me
- Take a picture of myself without using "Myspace angles" to get rid of my double chin
- Feel feminine, sexy, and pretty, instead of like a blob


When the world says, "Give up," hope whispers, "Try it one more time."


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- I want to be able to enjoy going to the mall with my best friend, and not walk into a store with her and look around for no reason (since they dont have clothes for me)

- Wear a bikini

- Dress up in a dress and heels, and go to the club with my closest friends

- Step foot on the beach, last time I was there I got made fun of, and have not returned since

- Meet my mother/father in law for the first time, and not have them be disappointed in their son for who he is with

- Be a motivation for others to lose weight and get healthy

- Wear skinny jeans, and look good!

- Lounge by the pool and feel like I belong there

- Finally have people stop staring

- GET RID OF MY BLOOD PRESSURE MEDICINE

- Have a family.

- Visit my mom. I havent seen her in over 3 years , afraid I wont comfortably fit on a plane

There are so many things I want.... and I will get them. I am not giving up.



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Oh, this is a hard one. I'd have to say to feel sexy again and to have more options on what to wear. Those are the big ones.

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1/2/12 11:02 P

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So many to choose from...

-shop at the skinny girl stores and not just at Lane Bryant
-ride the rides at the amusement park
-wear heels and look hot in them
-love how I look naked
-climb the stairs at my friend's apartment and not be out of breath
-have more confidence
-have more energy and not be so tired
-dance at the bar and not sweat like a pig
-be the hot one at the bar/club
-have guys check me out
-have a guy be able to pick me up when he kisses me
-fit in a booth at restaurant comfortably
-not be the fat sister anymore, my sister is a size 0
-be able to cross my legs
-sit comfortably on a plane so I can travel more
-be told I'm hot and not just that I have a cute face

There is so much more but those are a few :)

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So many to choose from...

-I want to travel to Europe, and not be the stereotypical fat American.
-I want to be able to wear the styles I love, not just admire them on someone else' body.
-I want to be comfortable in my own skin in public, no longer constantly worrying about whether my flub is showing or if my shirt is stuck in a roll.
-I want to easily slip into freshly washed jeans without having to do a little dance to get them over my hips.
-I want to be flirted with, simply to know that I'm attractive.
-I want to be unselfconscious when I go swimming or to the beach.
-I want to be the healthy friend, not the token fat one.
-I want other people to want what I have, not the other way round.
-I want to touch my toes with ease.
-I want to jog without all of my joints aching.
-I want to be light enough for someone to pick me up, piggyback me, or carry me across a threshold.
-I want to be able to hold my arm out the window of a moving car without the wind blowing my fat into ripples.
-When my parents tell me I'm beautiful I want it to be more than just a familial expression of love, I want it to be true.
-And, more than anything, I want to look, feel and know that I am beautiful, not just half-way decent.

I could go on...

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Wow so many fantasies!
What to choose ...
You know, I'm sure we all have the same fantasies of feeling confident and looking good :)
I want to learn to ride a horse.

I think a big motivator for me will be to save up the money I would have spent on drinks and snacks at college and hopefully, when I've lost enough I'll be able to pay for some lessons!

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Hmmmmm...... there are so many, here they go!

- Have my husband pick me up
- Sit on my husbands lap without worrying about crushing his legs
- Go on a shopping spree with my BFF in New York
- Be able to go to any store I want and buy what I think looks cute instead of what will fit
- Go to the beach in a bikini
- Be fit and healthy
- Not be tired all of the time
- Being active
- Being able to wear shorts and a tank top
- Look good in scrubs
- Being comfortable on a plane
- Being able to wear a sexy dress on New Years Eve
- Feeling good about myself and not hating what I see in the mirror



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12/22/11 12:45 A

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- I want to be intimate with my husband without worrying about how I look
- I want to be able to fit comfortably in a plane seat
- I want to go shopping somewhere other than Lane Bryant and Avenue
- I want to be able to have a baby within the next year
- I want to get a great job, and not have to settle for grunt work just because I'm not smaller
- I want to wear heels
- I want to feel healthy
- I want lower blood pressure
- I want to sleep better

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12/12/11 8:27 P

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- I want to love how I look naked
- I want to be able to wear the cool clothes I see in the window in popular stores instead of having to settle for whatever's at Lane Bryant
- I want to have the confidence to advance my career (looks matter at work you know)
- I want to be the hot one at the gym
- I want to run a 5K and feel like I'm on top of the world
- I want to spend every day healthier and more energized

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12/12/11 2:54 P

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-I want to ride roller coasters again.
-I want to get a piggy back ride.
-I want to go shopping in designer stores.
-I want to learn to surf wearing cute board shorts and a bikini top.
-I want to sit on an airplane without "sucking in" for thousands of miles with armrests digging into my sides.
-I want to trail ride like I used to. I'm now too big (in my opinion) to be on a horse.
-I want to share clothes with my best friend like we did in jr. high before she got skinny in high school.
-I want to wear fashion when it's hot, and not have to wait a season or two until the fatty stores get it!

~Stephanie~

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"This one step -choosing a goal and sticking to it- changes everything."-Scott Reed



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12/10/11 10:39 P

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- I want my boyfriend to be able to pick me up and carry me without breaking his back (and also be able to sit on his lap without thinking I'll crush him, lol)
- Being able to wear short shorts and look good in them
- Being able to wear cute clothes
- Looking good in boots (especially knee-high ones)
- Having guys checking me out
- Genuinely believing when someone compliments me on my looks


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12/9/11 5:12 P

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-I want to be able to walk in a room and not feel like I'm a whale next to my husband (he is 6ft 2in 165lb... I'm 5ft 3in 265lbs)
-I want my husband to be able to pick me up
-I want to not be scared to do things like go horse back riding again because i know at my weight now i will be told I'm to fat
-I want to be able to run and play with my kids (when they are old enough to) and not get out of breath
-I want to be able to wear a swim suit and not feel bad about myself in it

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12/6/11 1:09 P

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-I want to be able to wear dresses in the summer and not feel embarrassed by my body.
-I want to be able to go on rides at the amusement park



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12/5/11 12:20 A

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I have a few- though they will hopefull be realities if I keep going how I am going...

Be able to wear pants at my waist and not under my gut!

Be fit enough to get a tattoo down my rib cage and not embarassed to pull up my shirt to show it off.

Be able to fit into a Large shirt (Medium would be great).

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Post Surgery Starting Weight 279.2 (-24): 12/01/14

Pre-Surgery Weight 233 (-70.2):

Driver's License Weight 220 (-83.2):

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12/4/11 12:29 P

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I have SEVERAL skinny fantasies! Although my weight has never been an issue in my marriage for my husband, I cannot wait until I can feel comfortable with my body in front of him. Married almost 6 years, I still get uncomfortable when he sees me...it's totally embarrassing, so it will be super nice to not feel that way! I'd also love to be able to walk into a clothing store and not have to look for the fat-girl section! & like several of y'all, a bikini would be awesome ;) I could go on & on!!

*i LoVe My MaRiNe*


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12/4/11 11:33 A

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To be able to rock a bikini for the first time in my life!...That and letting my ex see me looking great wouldn't hurt either... ;-)

May the Force be with you--
Amanda


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12/4/11 7:27 A

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My skinny fantasy is to wear a bikini for the first time in my life when I am 30

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9/1/11 3:05 P

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I want to be able to walk through a crowd without thinking my large rear end is gonna knock everyone and everything over.
Also I want to be able to sit in a chair without having to analyze whether I fit in it, or if it will stick to my butt when I stand or if worst of all, I will break it!

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8/31/11 8:23 P

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I want for my husband to be able to pick me up.

ENOUGH


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