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Get Others Involved in Your Goals

Coaches, mentors, trainers, teammates, partners, fans. Even the greatest athletes in the world can’t do it alone.

People naturally perform better when others are on their side and helping out. Even in everyday nutrition and fitness, we’ve found that people who involve others and ask for help get much better results and stick to their programs longer than people who try to go the distance on their own.

Why is that? For starters, positive peer pressure can be one of the most powerful motivators around. It’s tougher to quit when someone else is counting on you. In fact, with a team that’s pulling for you, it’s less likely that you’ll want to quit.

When you involve others, you have access to more knowledge, more ideas, more enthusiasm, and more resources. Bicyclists and race car drivers are finding out that they need teammates looking out for them if they have any chance at all of winning. You can take advantage of the same benefits.

Finally, having other people help out just makes weight loss a heckuva lot more fun. Especially for social exercisers, trying to lose weight and exercise alone can leave you bored out of your mind.

Your weight loss goals are every bit as important as those of a world-class athlete. This is why SparkPeople emphasizes meeting and getting to know other members. We’ve seen the Spark that happens on the Message Boards, when members rally behind someone who’s struggling, or congratulate the latest success.

Business people draw on a team of accountants, lawyers, financial advisers, headhunters, board members, etc. Together, they form a team of specialists that open up possibilities to that businessperson and his/her business goals. You can build a similar team around your weight loss goals. People that can help with your journey are all around you. You can do this without making a lot of demands on anyone’s time.

Some possible ways to build a strong team by only asking one thing of each person:
  • Ask a friend to check with you once a week to see how you’re doing.
  • Ask your significant other to be there when you need to unload.
  • Ask a co-worker to keep you upbeat.
  • Ask your kids to help you find active ways to have fun.
  • Ask your brother-in-law to pass along inspirational reading and interesting health news.
  • Ask your photographer sister to take "before" and "in-progress" pictures.
Better yet, why not ask someone to join your healthy lifestyle quest? Going through and succeeding with a new program with a friend or buddy can create a bond that carries over into other areas of your life.
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Member Comments

Yup, keep you motivated, just what SP is about Report
I am workout loner although I am on a competive row team that requires Teamwork to get the shell moving. I find strength training and cardio for myself is best done alone.
In regards to my healthy lifestyle change people do ask me about my program, what I eat and so fourth. I reply that I eat healthy for my nutritional needs. I have found that people do not like to be told what to eat. Whatever works for each individual. Report
Do what suits YOU....... Report
Thanks! Report
Everyone does better with positive, supportive friends. Report
We all need motivation help at times. Report
Good article. Report
I have several people who are interested in my eating and exercising program. They are in constant communication to see how I' doing Report
I prefer the privacy of my own home and my spouse to be my support system. I have 2 little dogs that are very fast walkers which I can't keep up with but it's something to be outdoors with them. We are campers and thus are walkers. Report
Guess I am in the loner side, I feel that I can trust myself above all others, I like exercising alone, I have never been a person that had to have leagues of friends to put a stamp of approval on goals, tasks or anything I do, if you don't like the way I do things then do things the way you like but don't express your disapproval of the way I do them. I find that weight loss was much easier without involving other people, there are sabotors in all areas of life, even here in SP. I find all the support I need here in teams with limited amounts of people. If you can't trust yourself to do what is right and good for you, then how can you trust a league of supporters. I know I am different in that opinion, but that is me, I lost 70 lbs without inviting the whole town to keep me in line, so I guess that is what is right for me. Find what is right for you. Report
I like to walk alone with my four legged buddy. Never talks back or gets tired. Report
It has been 3 yrs since I came to Spark. I am 60+ and do not like the weight gain I am experiencing. I have gained belly fat that I have never had before. A foot injury has kept me from walking for 8 months now and it is not helping with the weight gain. Any suggestions to get rid of this belly fat? Is it possible at this age or something I just need to learn to live with?

Frustrated! Report
In an ideal world, finding a local support system among friends & family would be great and easy. Thankfully, groups like Spark are here for those of us whose immediate circles are less than supportive to downright negative. Thanks, Spark! Report
I am a private person and don't really want to share with co-workers or other acquaintances. My husband knows what I am trying to do, and so does a close friend. The SparkCommunity provides support in a manner that allows me the privacy and discretion that makes me comfortable, rather than insecure. Report
Not mentioned here is that getting others involves a level of trust. Experience has taught me that people are not to be trusted, so what do you do then? Report
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Mike Kramer
Mike Kramer
As a writer and artist, Mike has witnessed countless motivational stories and techniques. See all of Mike's articles.