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Feeling Frustrated

Thursday, August 13, 2009

I really am a sincere person. I would love to see people meet there goals. I would like to motivated them and support them and help in any way i can. I would also like for the same in return. I am not expert on diet and fitness, but I try. I am in to loss weight and to develope a healthy lifestyle like everybody else. I need to lose 50 lbs myself.

I do my best, but then I ready a forum on greenville team about teams and leaders, and motivation. In the forum, i am mentioned twice. The first one was talking nice of me and how i am real nice. Then I read a second one and she talks like I didn't help her. I did try to help her and even offered to talk to her on the phone and walk her through it. Her question pertained to a challange and the point was all being entered in the forum, not as a team goal.

I really try my best to help people and hate that I didn't help her and she mentioned it on a team forum. I really did try to help and most memebers will tell you I do try.

I try my best to come up with ideas. I can come up with ideas all day long, but I can't make people do them or try. I really think I do a good job expectly with my busy schedule.

I even felt I wasn't doing enough and recruited 3 new leaders to help me. I want to help peopel acheive there goalsand support and motivate them. But I am human.

This response from the member really bothered me b/c I really do try to answer each email and question. I think I go far and above to help people. i don't know why I let the comment get to me but it did. I should just let it go but I am a very sensitive person and it bothered me expectly since i did try to help with the question.

Enough about that. Hopefully I will forget about the comment and not turn to comfort food. I have been doing real good at my caliore without turning to a comfort food b/c I can please all.

Thanks for hearing me complain. Sorry to anybody I didn't help. It wasn't because i wasn't trying.
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    We’ve all felt the sting of hurt and anger when someone we thought we were helping betrays a confidence or says something insensitive about us. But you have taken an important step in processing your emotions and work toward a proper response before your anger turns to bitterness and retaliation. Forgiveness doesn’t come naturally, but the peace that follows makes it well worth the effort. Know that you did your best, move on, there are those out there still reaching for help and you will be the one that makes a difference to them.

    4291 days ago
    You can't please all the people all the time so the important thing is to just do your best and when you have done that as you have then do not worry about what others say or think . Take what others say with a grain of salt and listen to those who care for you and encourage you and weed out the chaff along the way .

    I am from Greenville and think you are doing a fine job . Lord knows you have more than this board on your plate and seem to me to go over and above what anyone could or should expect from you

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    4291 days ago
  • KMOMA2
    You can only do what you can do, you are one person. emoticon
    4291 days ago
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