Thursday, December 09, 2010
l'il bit sheeepish.
I think I overreacted to the whole Bieber situation.
I couldn't wait for G to sort it out any longer and MIL messaged me about his Christmas present so I just came out with it - but I followed my IMPORTANT RULE that I use for dealing with...well, anything...which is 'LEAD WITH LOVE'.
So instead of going 'why the f*ck are you a**holes taking Nissy to a damn concert in stead of coming to my wedding reception' which is what I felt like saying, I said 'oooooh Mandy Gray and I are so so upset at the idea that you and Graham won't be there for our reception! Please tell me you've found a way around this terrible situation!'
To which she replied 'Only I will be going with Nissy to the concert, we'll be at the ceremony though and it will probably be for the best seeing as G's real mum will be there, it will probably make thing less tense if everyone's had a drink or two before she and I come face to face.'
So she's not being evil after all.
I'm just so used to her being evil I jumped to conclusions.
What a relief though!! I couldn't BELIEVE what was happening, as Schen said in a comment to my previous blog, I thought we were reconciled.
And it turns out, we are.
It'll be a Merry Albany Xmas after all.