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Wishing All This Stress Would Go Away

Friday, October 07, 2011

This week has been a very stressful week for me. I missed 2 days on Spark and it was the worse thing. Have been so busy dealing with things that its getting the best of me and driving me crazy. All week I have had to deal with my daughter Lindsey's school and they are stressing me out. Lindsey my 5 yr. old is having problems in school, its her first year of Kindergarten so that is hard. Tuesday she came home from school crying and all upset, when I asked her what was wrong she said a little boy bit me because I had the ball in gym and he wanted it. The boy bit her so bad her arm was all swelled up and the bruise was bad, she had to go to the nurse because it was bleeding really bad. I was so mad because the school never called me or sent a note home to let me know about this. So once I got her settled down called the school and told them I want a meeting set up with the teacher, principle and the boys parents the next day.

So Wednesday when I had to get Lindsey ready for school she cried please don't make me go I scared the little boy will hurt me. Oh did they break my heart but make me mad that my daughter is suppose to love school not be afraid. I drove her to school because I had a meeting with them and told her to stay away from the boy and she would be okay.

The mother of the boy was something else I wanted to knock her out of the chair, she sat their and called the gym teacher a liar that her son didn't bite Lindsey. The teacher said I know what happened I saw what he did to her and that Lindsey did nothing wrong for him to bite her. Then tells the principle that she feels her son shouldn't be punished for what he did, are you kidding me he needs to learn what he did was wrong he could seriously hurt someone. The principle said that her son was going to be punished because he can't think its okay to hurt other kids. She wasn't happy when she left the meeting but I felt better and asked that this little boy be nowhere around my daughter and then said they would make sure of it.

Now the problem is Lindsey cries every morning begging me not to send her school, please let me stay home Mommy I will be safe with you. An this breaks my heart I cry every morning when the bus pulls away because it hurts me to see her cry. Hoping that things get better for her soon.

Sorry so long I just needed to vent and get some of this stress out! An exercise has helped me also!
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    This is terrible, so sorry your daughter has to deal with a bully in Kindergarten. My daughter is in that grade, too, and I don't know what I would do. And his mother's reaction is just going to make the problem worse on her child's end. He needs to be disciplined for what he did! Sending love and hugs your way. emoticon
    3505 days ago
    These situations make it so hard, my heart goes out to you!
    3508 days ago
  • TEMPEST272002
    Sorry to hear that your daughter got attacked at school. You expect them to be kept safe, but these kinds of things happen all the time. It might help DD process her emotions & feel more prepared if you role play different situations with her. Have her take the role of the boy who hurt her while you play her part and then reverse roles. To really gain insight on her perspective, ask her to role play the teacher role & the mommy role. I hope things get better for her soon too. Hugs.
    3508 days ago
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