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6/10/11 9:57 P

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6/10/11 11:48 A

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Oh sweetie I'm so sorry to hear that. :( I have a friend who went through that same situation last year and it was devastating. I'm so sorry now you're going through it too. :( Sending lots and lots of hugs.

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6/10/11 8:43 A

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Oh, Jersey... I sit here with the rest of the group, wishing I was close enough to run right over there and sit with you. I so terribly sorry and, like the some others here, I can say that I know sort of what you're going through...

Lots and lots of love to you and yours right now.

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6/10/11 5:32 A

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Words just don't cut it right now.

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6/9/11 9:24 A

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Oh Jersey. I am at a loss with words. I hate this for you. You have had to deal with so much sadness in such a short period of time. It's enough to drive anyone crazy.

I'm here if you want to scream, yell, rant or rave. Life is so awfully unfair sometimes. If you need me, I am here.

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6/9/11 9:05 A

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I am so sorry you are going through this. Everyone is right there is nothing we can say that will take the hurt or pain away. Just remember the food won't make you feel better either. I used to think it did but ugh it doesn't. We are here to support you. Take care of yourself.

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6/9/11 8:44 A

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I'm so sorry to hear this! I'm crying for you. The people in work must think I'm a little crazy sitting at my computer with tears in my eyes. If you need anything, feel free to ask anytime. emoticon

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6/9/11 8:37 A

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I am truly and deeply sorry for your loss. I hope that you both find some peace in, what is surely, your love for each other. emoticon

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6/9/11 8:12 A

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I'm sitting in the office in tears as I read this. I can't tell you how awful I feel for you and the situation. You will be in my thoughts and prayers today.

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6/9/11 7:46 A

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

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6/9/11 6:32 A

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Oh I am so sorry to hear that. It's absolutely terrible when this happens. My heart goes out to you.

I miscarried recently at 14 and a half weeks - it was really terrible. When I got home from finding out I had a big chocolate easter bunny - after not having chocolate for weeks. I think it's ok to give in that one time.

Sending you hugs

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6/9/11 2:30 A

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Along with the others, my heart goes out to you. We are here if you ever need to vent/talk/chat!

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6/9/11 1:09 A

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My heart goes out to you, Jersey. I miscarried at 10 weeks and 3 months later we were pregnant again. Even though the doctor told us to "stay on our own side of the bed" for 6 months. Matthew is now 9 but I still think about who the other child might have been. Know that people are thinking of you. - A

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6/9/11 1:08 A

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My heart breaks for you. I've walked your steps several times and I can tell you there is not going to be 1 thing that anyone can say that will change things........however, know that prayers and compassion and empathy are going your way. You are not alone in the pain and sadness. Many strong shoulders are extending for you to lean on here. Blessings for you!

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6/9/11 12:37 A

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Having not told the outside world can't possibly make it any easier. I won't pretend to know what you're going through, because I've never experienced a miscarriage, but my heart goes out to you. I'm very sorry to hear this.

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6/9/11 12:20 A

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Love, kisses, and hugs go out to you. I am so sorry to read about this. I also miscarried and know it is a difficult event to go through. Keep postive thoughts in your mind and look for support where you can.

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6/8/11 11:31 P

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I'm sorry to hear that. I understand what you are going through. I miscarried 9 weeks in about 4 years ago. It was a similar situation - sac but no developing embryo. While you do grieve for the loss, you keep hope alive and don't give up. I got pregnant again a couple of months later and she held on even after a heavy bleeding incident. My daughter turned four this March.
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6/8/11 11:26 P

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aww, honey I'm so sorry to hear this! sending you hugs and a shoulder should you ever need one. I don't ask questions, I just listen. wish I had some magic words for you.........

you're just an empty cage girl, if you kill the bird....Tori Amos.


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6/8/11 10:59 P

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emoticon nothing I say will help the hurt go away, so just know that if you need to talk, I am here to listen.


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6/8/11 10:10 P

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Wow..... I totally understand. I had a miscarriage 10 weeks in. Even though its natures way of preventing a bigger problem, it is still hard to grasp.



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6/8/11 9:52 P

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So sorry. I've been through a miscarriage, too, and know how hard it is.

Be kind to yourself.

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So sorry to hear, Would offer you this spark shoulder whenever you need. feel free to visit my page. Joyce ( to lean or cry on, not the cold one) emoticon

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i'm sorry to hear about you no longer being pregnant. i've had a couple of miscarriages so i know how upsetting it is. emoticon

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Just got back from our first ob/gyn appointment. It did not go well. Ultrasound didn't show anything except a yolk sack, so we went to a more high tech, full ultrasound. That didn't show anything either. So, I'm pregnant and have no baby growing inside. It's called a blighted ovum, a misfire type of miscarriage if you will. Going back next Wednesday for another scan to confirm - just in case the pregnancy is earlier than they thought and too soon to find anything, next week will be for sure. But that's just a formality, really. Then we talk about "options."

I bought ice cream, M&Ms, Twix, a soft cookie and a turkey sandwich. Thinking positive, at least I bought the small sizes of all of those. lol. *

I never did tell anyone in real life, so you guys are the only ones to know about the pregnancy to begin with.

*Update, I couldn't even eat the food. Ate the sandwich, 3 of the four Twix mini sticks, and a few spoonfuls of ice cream. *sigh*

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